Nico’s Online Dating, Pickup & Seduction Blog.

I went out with very insightful woman last week. Who said she had different views on relationships and monogamy than her girlfriends. I asked her to explain.

She said “Men should not be forced to be Monogamous” In shock and awe of this brilliant woman I asked “Why?” she said “it’s not natural for them” and  “you can be his friend and have the truth and a great relationship or try to control him and be lied to.”

She also understood that to men having a fling keeps his sex drive alive where monogamy generally kills it so the woman in the relationship also suffers.

I asked her if that meant that she should also not be monogamous she replied “No, when I’m in a relationship I don’t want anyone else.” And  “If most women thought like this there would be almost no divorces.” I agreed!

The stats support what she’s saying. Sure some monogamous men are happy. But most if you talked to are actually tolerant rather than happy, becuase they believe and have been brainwashed to believe they have no other option or choice.

And it’s not proven that committed men live longer. Men in relationships live longer, that does not mean they have never had sex with anyone else. I’m not at all against relationships. I have been in several both monogamous and open and both were wonderful times in my life.

For MOST men the dating world sucks, they risk the rejection, spend the money ( I don’t spend money on a woman until I know she’s into me, then I’m very generous), most of the really attractive women out there are low quality in all of the other areas so approach with caution! (ask any experienced man and he’ll tell you the same.)

Many of those married men that look so happy, are not monogamous they don’t wear signs saying “I cheat.” And neither do women.

Some men do find women they are 100% into and are 90% compatible with and it’s so good that it’s easier to fight the desire to be with another women.

But for most it’s not the case. 66% of marriages end in divorce. And I don’t think I have ever met a married man that didn’t tell me “Don’t get married!”

And no I’m not the last word and her view is certainly not the norm for a woman. The last word lies with each individual. I’m just a person looks at the reality of the situation as a whole and every man I have ever had a serious talk about this with says the same thing “I want my wife but I’d like to have sex with another woman once in a while” It’s like a pressure that builds up and needs to be released. You either release it or have an explosion.

The one’s getting some on the side are MUCH happier than the ones that don’t for the most part, unless they have guilt issues.

Anyway I don’t agree that most women will agree with this. Only maybe those that do therapy with men, or prostitutes as both see the sides of men they hide from the women in their life. Or maybe women like my friend that some how has also come to the same conclusion through what ever means of observation of the reality of the situation.

The few women I have met that share this view or were raised to and they are much happier and less stressed out and my friend above that told me her view is one such woman.

What really needs to happen is Men as whole and to just come out and say “ENOUGH! this is how we are deal with it!” and end the lies and pretense. Because you can never be true to someone else if you are not true to yourself.

Most men want a relationship but we are wired to want to have sex with other women by nature. Nature will ALWAYS prevail over social conditioning, social contracts,etc… Look around at all of the evidence. Disagree all you like but the fact and static and behavior of people speak the reality of the situation.

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This is a response to a question my face book friend Brent posted. I thought I’d post it here also.

“It all depends on where you are in your  life and what you want. I find that often it’s best to take some time alone or single especially if you are one of those people that have never been alone or jump from relationship to relationship as most very attractive women do because it’s so easy. A lot of women don’t leave one man until the have another lined up. I see the less in men.

People that are never single and never spend any time alone really don’t have a relationship with their self or even know themselves well. When you don’t know yourself or have a quality relationship with yourself how can you ever expect to really  have quality relationship with another person.

People also need to wake up from the LIE we are sold that we need someone else to complete us. We must find that inner peach and feel completed  and happy our own then we will attract others to us that also feel that way.

Relationships are Mirrors that show us aspects of our self and also reflect back to us what we judge harshly in others. So you really need to asses what you have learned from the relationship about yourself, your actions, reactions, and also what you have discovered that you are attracting in others and what you want and do not want in a future partner and relationship.

Without that you’re pretty much going to attract the same thing and often make the very same mistakes as you did last time.

Now if you’re just dating and there are really just seeing someone for a month you should still learn about what you want and don’t and your actions and reactions. But you don’t need a cooling off period that’s as long or even one at all.

BTW you can apply this way of thinking to your entire life, your job, family, sports, a conflict with a random person. This is the way I live everyday.

Asking how I attracted a situation, where my actions the best I could have taken and what would I prefer in the future.”

In the blog post I did yesterday I told you that I’m about to release my new Home Study Course soon.

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But since I started this site I have received a ton of email asking
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• What if I suck at meeting women?
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So I want to address those questions right now in video format which
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The BAD NEWS (Part 1) is I’m not going to be getting much sleep until this is launched as there is still a ton of work to be done for the launch even though the product is finished and ready to go.(Not Kidding
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If you have been on my mailing list for any length of time you know that I have been working on my Home Study Course for quite a while. And that it focuses on meeting and picking up women on social networking sites like Myspace, Facebook, Bebo, and basically any social networking site you might use now or in the future.

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Why? Because it’s been one of the hardest and longest projects I have ever worked on in my life! And I can release it to all of the men that have been asking for it and have been in need of it for a long time.

I’m also very proud because I feel that it’s some of the most tremendous work I have ever done in my life! You see, I’m not a professional writer and I’m not going to impress anyone with my writing skills or grammar but I know that I’m going to change lives forever with the secrets and knowledge that I share in this course. In fact it already has…keep an eye out for the video feedback that I’m going send you in a day or so from several of my one-one-one coaching clients.)

This course took several years of being “up until the crack of dawn research” (fortunately some of that research included getting laid! ) and experience in my own online dating life going from CMF (confused miserable failure) at online dating to effortlessly successful player.

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I am very grateful to have been able to talk to, interview and model my own success after many of those men and now you will be able to model your success after all of us. I’m also very grateful to all of my friends that supported me in this effort and to my friend Nicole (who I met on Myspace and dated for 3 years) who helped edit my book and clean up my murderous use of the English language! Of course I went back in and screwed much of it up again…lol

This Course is Jam-Packed with a ton of information and will teach you all of the Secrets (that most men won’t share and in fact will sneakily hide from you) that you need to know to meet, pickup, date and hookup with Hot Women on online and on social networking sites!

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I’m going to be releasing it for sale before the end of this month so (yes in the next 6 days) come hell or high water and I’ll be in contact over the next few days answering questions, going into detail on what exactly is in the course and telling you about the Fast Action Bonuses I’m giving out the first 100 People that buy the new course.

Also I have tried to make it as affordable as possible by making several different packages of the course available depending budget, course options and personal coaching from me.

I’ll be filling you in on all of this before Friday! In the meantime here’s a Sneak peek spy photo below of one of the top level packages. There are two packages below this level and one above all to be explained very soon.

Talk to you very soon,

Nico Simon Princely

PS: Make sure you’re on my email list or subscribed to this blog and check your RSS feeds as this course will be released Friday January 29th 2010 at 12:00 Noon Pacific Standard Time!

If you have ever been stuck in the friend zone you know how frustrating, depressing and agonizing it can be! And then you watch as the woman your are so into sometimes even in love with goes off and hooks up with some jerk or asshole. While you’re moaning from heartbreak she’s moaning in pleasure while he defiles her 8 different ways!

Then when he dumps her she often comes back to tell you the story and cry on your shoulder! And just when you think she is going to wake and she you for her dream guy he calls her back now that he got a new bottle of Viagra all you get is the F—ing check at the end of dinner and a distant hug! And the torment goes on!

What you don’t know is that the very fact that she is friends with you and is willing to hang out with you generally means that at some point when she first met you she had already said to herself in her mind “I’d have sex with him.” And then YOU SCREWED IT ALL UP! And then you were then put into the friends zone!

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Ok the title of this post it loaded and was meant to get you’re attention.

I was responding to another Facebook post…Where a stripper was complaining about some guy she was dating that cheated on her and a guy stated most strippers are messed up in the head and cheat more and he got attacked so I had to chime in and say a few words…Here is my take on the subject.

“Women often lie and cheat as much as men and it’s much easier for them becuase any attractive women can find a man to cheat with pretty much all day long no matter where they go. They are just better at hiding it.

As far as strippers I have dated a few some cheat and some don’t and the majority are messed up in the head from my personal experience but quite honestly most beautiful women (stripper or not) in general are messed up in the head, rely only their looks, and are unreliable, flaky, lie as much or more than men,  are too demanding, can’t cook and think the world owes them something.

One reason why this happens is because most men these days kiss their asses have no balls or self-respect and put up with it and let them walk all over them and the women continue to do it. If men stood their ground these kinds of women would shape up or be alone.

This  opinion comes from my experience of dating strippers, models and other very attractive women and talking to my friends that have also done the same or even run strip clubs. And also many strippers have been raped or molested at one time in their life and stripping is their way of taking back their sexual power. (I’m not saying that is the case with all of them but it seems to be a trend.)

On the up side Strippers are fun, often generous (the good ones), and hot to look at, outgoing and fun to hang out with, and most but not all are generally more sexual and many have good hearts. I have no issue with the job or the industry itself nor do I look down upon it or them and I judge each person individually, but you must also take in account any stereotype becuase stereotypes are formed only when there is a very large percentage of of the group in question that fits the stereotype in the first place.

When a guy is with a girl who is unreliable, flaky, lies  or just a difficult pain in the ass or too demanding he’s not going to take her seriously (if he’s got a brain in his head) becuase he knows she’s only good for one thing (if shes even good at that) and when her looks fade you have an ugly, unreliable, demanding pain in he ass, wow what a deal…lol

So ladies if you’re flaky, a pain in the ass, too demanding, showing him little respect, the guy is going to start seeing someone else and really to you blame him?

I’m not saying it’s ok to cheat for either party. I personally just tell them I’m seeing other people, you can stay and have fun and see where it leads or go.

I dated a 10 that was a stripper many years ago and she told me when we broke up “Nico, don’t date strippers, you can’t trust them.” and that was coming from a stripper.

I did not listen as I just stopped dating another stripper that was reliable, did not do drugs or drink did not live the stripper lifestyle (about 10% if that much are like this) and was my best friend, but that’s no longer because she has daddy issues that caused resentment toward men and I got tired of verbal attacks becuase of her issues.

Everyone is an individual but certain industries do attract certain kinds of people and personalities. Strippers and Girls in Porn act differently that a Woman that’s a lawyer, actresses also have their own peculiarities. And this goes for men as well.

Male Strippers also cheat more most of the time…Because they get it offered to them where as the average man does not. This is based on my friends in that are male exotic dancers and my own experience as one many years ago for a short period (it  wasn’t for me as I like to use my brain.)

If you want to attack me, delete me, etc for what  I have said so be it…lol

I think i’ll post this on my blog so thanks for the inspiration!”

So in closing All strippers are NOT crazy, cheating, lying, whores…But you can bet there is a fair share of them out there that are crazy, will cheat, and some will have sex for money. So don’t be blinded by their beauty look for their beauty in their actions to show you who they really are!

BTW I know of girls that used to work at retail stores in Beverly Hills during the day and are off banging foreign business men for $2000 a night while they boyfriends were out playing poker with their buddies on Wednesday night.  So it’s not just strippers.