The Worst Places Online to Meet Women (Part 1)
While advertisers and affiliate marketers would like for you to believe that the best place to meet women online is adult dating sites. It has been my personal experience that they are not the best place online to meet women. More correctly for me personally they have been the worst place to meet women.
Now I could tell you that adult dating sites are the best place to meet women and put up an affiliate link and send you there and make a nice chunk of change. But then I doubt you would ever listen to anything else I say again, because it’s just not true.
I asked 3 different adult dating sites to give me a free evaluation pass to try it for a month, because if it was good site and I actually met some women I would love to recommend it to my readers. Not one of those 3 sites would give me a free pass so I could review their site for my readers. That tells me something right there. But I forked over the money myself anyway and I got zip, nada, zilch!
I have tried adult dating sites 2 different times over the last few years. I became a full member paying up to $35 a month had almost no response to my e-mails, or my profile on one site. Now I would say that maybe the women just weren’t attracted to me except that at the same time I was also getting e-mails from women on other sites that I consistently do well on that were free!
The other adult site that I tried I started to get responses right away from women seeming very interested before I even had a picture up. Which just does not happen! That was a red flag to me telling me something was fishy. Of course I could only read the e-mails if I joined and became a paid full member. Now I am not saying that the site was a scam as those could have been fake profiles or marketers contacting me but in any case real women rarely do that and I was not about to pay another $35 to find out who it was.
To be fair I am willing to evaluate any site and give it a fair shot and if proves worthy I’ll be happy to send them customers. But I will NOT recommend a site that I experience to be a rip off no matter how much money I can make. There maybe be some good adult dating sites out there for men to meet women on but as of this writing I have NOT found one. (If you own or work for a site and want me to review it please contact me)
The problem with these adult dating sites is that they sell it like you just log in and women are waiting to have sex. It’s NOT like that. It no different that any other dating site in that you still have to be attractive to women know how to get her to respond to you and create a connection and rapport.
The truth about these sites is that the men out number the men by a huge margin, the men for the most part are men that have absolutely no social skills what so ever, and contact every women within a 50 mile radius and post up pictures of their Penises as their main pics, which all but a very small percentage of women find a huge turn off. This crap overloads the women’s mailboxes and desensitizes the women to the point of not wanting to write back to anyone or even deal with the site, which is why a lot of the women listed on these sites have not logged in months. You have to also understand that many of the women on these sites signed up as a gag with their girlfriends or when horny one night after a couple of drinks and then changed their mind the next day after they had a reality check.
(Don’t forget that hot young women men all of the time in real life and don’t need to go to a dating site for sex. Men approach them all day long everyday! Some may go to a dating site when they want more than sex but for sex most would just go to a club, unless they are into something like BDSM or something that is hard to find in person.)
Most of the hot young women on these sites are either fake profiles put up by people trying to get you to join other sites (this is no fault of the site and these profiles are on all sites these days even the ones I do well on) or girls that are looking for other girls to hook up with.
The women I found in the chat rooms are that will actually talk to you are women that are older, and BBWs (Big Beautiful Women = Fat chicks)
If you are into older women or BBWs or just looking for anything with a hole in it, I am sure you might do ok on these kinds of sites.
But if you are like me and like thin attractive young women this is the worst place to meet women online and it’s not worth your time, effort or money as there are much better places for you to meet women online.
If you are gay or bisexual you might also hook up. I am not either so I personally have no experience in that area on adult sites and can’t offer an opinion on that.
On the other hand if you are a horny woman you can find a guy on there very easily. If you are a woman looking for another woman, a couple looking for a man, a couple looking for a woman, adult dating sites might actually be a good place to meet people for you.
But for now I am going to stay way from these types of site and concentrate on sites that give me a much greater ROI (return on investment.)
I welcome your comments & stories of your experiences with these kinds of sites.
-Nico Simon Princely
To be continued….
In Part 2 I will tell you the second worst sites I have found to meet women on and I’ll be you tried them before or you are on there right now
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