How to spot a fake on Myspace…
How to spot a fake on Myspace…
Definition:
fake
adj.
Having a false or misleading appearance; fraudulent.
n.
- One that is not authentic or genuine; a sham.
- A person that has stolen another persons picture and created a
profile on myspace pretending to be another person.
Ok so the number one problem I have on myspace is no longer getting women to contact me. I have mastered that aspect of online dating. The problem bow is weeding out the fakes! Which I am pretty good at spotting now.
I even psted a blog up on my page to help prevent it.
But here are the top 5 signs that the girl you are talking to is a fake.
1. She only has pictures of herself. There are no social pictures of her with other people.
2. She has little to no text at all.
3. Her friends comments are mostly “Thanks for the add” and “You’re hot!” typs of comments. No real
conversations.
4. Her friends are mostly guys, Real women have female friends.
5. She seems too good to be true. She is a 9 or ten has a perfect personality and is online all day. There are hot
women on myspace that are real but they are too busy to be online all day long.
6. She is much hotter than most of the girl you have dated in the past. If you tend to date hot women then this
will not apply to you.
7. All of a sudden out of no where her profile is deleted or she stop talking to you for no reason. This is because she can not keep the charade going and has no other choice.
If you girl shows any of those signs she maybe fake, if she show several the odds are she really is a fake.
Now before I waste any more time than 2-3 e-mails on girl fake or real I do the following.
1. Meet her in person to see if she is real (if she is local)
2. Have her go on webcam so I can see if she is real.
3. Have her send me send me a candid mirror pic holding up a sign with what I tell her to write. (this can be faked but is not that likely)
4. Have her send me send me a candid mirror pic from her cell phone. Often these pics are very revealing 
)
And to every one that has been faked I suggest that you from now on ask for the above so you will never get faked out again.
If they are fakes they will most likely pull a take away on you and tell you that “Maybe we shouldn’t talk anymore” or some crap about trust. All of which is just a manipulation tactic. Then just know that they were fakes and move on and block them.
Oh and talking on the phone means nothing other than your imagining what you want to imagine and your really talking to some ugly fat chick that has a phone.
Once one of my friends spent 3 months talking on the phone to a girl that planned on moving out here and living with him an hour before the flight she called and said “I am not coming the pics arn’t mine!” He was devastated he had even stopped seeing other girls. If he had followed the above suggestions of getting proof of identity as I always do it would not have happened to him.
I personally feel that these fakes that actually play this out that think this is funny, or are role playing as some women think it’s like a video game with emotional content. Are guys that are total losers that actually have no life, don’t get laid and have way too much free time on their hands. Not only that they are thieves, they are stealing peoples time which is their lives.
When you talk to a fake you could be spending that time talking to your friends, family, working, learning. But you are taking a chance and time out of your life to make a connection with someone on an emotional level and some selfish inconsiderate asshole is taking advantage of that and robing you of your time which remember is your life.
I just read a story about a guy that did this to a “Friend” as a joke and made his “Friend” him waste his time driving all over the place. No one needs friends like that! I hope that guy wises up and gives that friend the boot. Because it’s about as funny as giving your friend 4 flat tires and making him late for work.
So far I must have dealt with hundreds of fakes. If they don’t play by my rules I stop talking to them. That’s the best way to handle them and Ironically if it turns out to be a real woman she will respect you for being a man and having the balls to cut her off and not letting her pull your chain.
Update:
I just had another girl contact me with fake pictures. Then the next day she came clean and she was cute (she would be a lot cuter with out all of the tattoos) but It turned me off so much I was no longer ineterested… Read from the bottom up.
I am just tired of it.
———————————————————————————
I am sorry you feel that way. Thats not truely how I am. But it is what it is.
—————– Original Message —————–
From:
Date: Dec 7, 2007 1:08 PM
No just on principal, if someones a fake and likes to play games with people like that I have no interest.
—————– Original Message —————–
From:
Date: Dec 7, 2007 12:30 PM
Also,
if you were really interested in me, you’d still be talking me.
—————– Original Message —————–
From:
Date: Dec 7, 2007 11:54 AM
I have not looked at your pics yet I might like them more than hers who knows but straight up Thats fucked up! I have at least 3-4 girls do this crap to me a month! Some try to drag it out forever and pretend to be someone else Read my blog on fakes. They waste your time when you could be working or talkng to someone else. ALL PEOPLE ARE SUPERFICIAL they have done studies and children at age 4 respond better to attractive people. Some women are more attracted to men with tattoos, or some don’t like nice guys etc… I did not contact you, you put in a friend request to me.
I liked talking to you so I kept talking to you. Most of the women where I live are as hot that girl it’s normal to me to talk to women like that.
Have a nice life.
If you had been yourself I would still be talking to you
—————– Original Message —————–
From: .
Date: Dec 7, 2007 6:24 AM
Ok so let’s start this morning with. That page you saw yesturday was not me. That girl Kandi is one of the most beautiful girls, and successful as well. I am a huge fan of hers. Everything I told you yesturday was true, other than my name and the pics that you saw.
I made the profile like that initially simply to prove a point that the hotter you are the superficial guys come rolling in no matter how much they tell you they are not. My real name is Aubrey, and I am a model, gogo dancer, and bartender in Tampa.
My real pics and the real me are up. Take is you may, but this was simply a test. No offence to you.
