Archive for January 11th, 2008

What should you wear when meeting a woman for the first time?

Friday, January 11th, 2008

Eric Wrote:
“What should I wear on my first date?”

Hi Eric,

You ask a question that many men ask themselves right before going to meet a woman that they have been talking to online and are now going to meet for the first time.

So let me give you some tips… 

This is just like a call back when you go on a casting call for an acting role. You want to go dressed similar in style to how you look in your pictures in your profile. Because this is what she is used to seeing and fits the mental image of you in her head. This is also the look that she has become attracted to.

It also depends on where you are going to meet her. If you follow my system for meeting women online you will be meeting her in a very casual setting in a public place. So you should dress casual.

You should never get all dressed up for a first meeting. While women do this, when a man does it makes him look like he is trying too hard to impress her. There are exceptions of course if you are coming from work to meet her and you are wearing a suit because you just got off work that’s ok as long as she knows you just came from work. But you almost always to better when dress very casual and relaxed like you could really care less what she thinks.

If you are going to be meeting up at a club (which I don’t recommend for a first meeting) You should be wearing trendy clothing (which means Designer Jeans that cost $200 a pair like Bad Religon, Desel, Etc… and Over priced T-Shirts like Ed Hardy, Affliction etc.) 

Make sure your clothes are clean and in good condition unless they are that worn look that is in style right now. (I’ll take that $100 T-Shirt, no not that one, the one with the tears and holes please.)

Wear nice clean shoes, women always look at a man’s shoes for some reason (Maybe it’s because nice shoes cost a lot of money and they are sizing you up financially?) and grungy shoes are a turn off for most women.

If you are not getting the women you want you may need to change your style (among other things). Attractive women that have style generally prefer men that have a sense of style and stays current and looks somewhat in fashion.

Your confidence, actions and attitude are far more important than how you dress, but dressing right can set things in your favor from that start and make every thing else go that much easier. 

 I hope this answers your question.

Your success is my goal,

Nico Simon Princely

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How to get women to respond to your emails…

Friday, January 11th, 2008

Many, many, readers have written to me asking:

“How do I get her attention to make her interested in a conversation?”

“How can I get girls to respond back to me when I email them?”

“I can’t even get women to reply to my e-mails, what do I do?”


Without question the questions that I am asked most often about online dating in some variation or another is basically “How do I get women to respond to my e-mails?”

This seems to be the biggest obstacle for most men in meeting & picking up women online. They can’t get women to respond to their opening e-mail. This is really analogous to the initial approach when meeting a woman off line in the real world.

Online via e-mail just like in the real world you only get one chance at a first impression so your opening e-mail can make or break you chance at meeting that woman you are planning to e-mail. You opening e-mail is one of the most important tools you have in meeting women online 2nd only to your profile.

After spending 4 years online meeting women, I have learned what works and what does not work when contacting women online and distilled it down to workable consistent formula that any man can learn and use to be successful with women online with a little practice and effort.

The correct method for meeting women online is not something I can tell you in one or two paragraphs so I have written a 10 page special report in adobe .pdf format that you can download for free by signing up to my free newsletter at http://www.pickupwomenonline.com

It contains my top 4 techniques for getting women to respond to your e-mails.

Your success is my goal,

Nico Simon Princely

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