Help I’m a Virgin what should I do?
Monday, January 21st, 2008Anonymous Wrote:
“What to tell her the first time I meet a woman, how to meet her first, what to write to make her respond, in fact, pretty much
everything concerning how to get into a relationship. I am 24 year old guy…A virgin, never had a girlfriend before, scared of what
to tell a girl….just a NOVICE when it comes to relationship…So please, tell me all I need to know when trying to meet a woman”
Hi Anonymous,
This actually goes beyond the scope of online dating which is what this site & newsletter is about. If it has not happened for you by 24 and you want it to then it means there are some real issues that need to be handled beyond what to say in your opening e-mail or how to get her number.
Because even if you get her to meet you the odds are you will blow it in person. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at any age if that is what you choose but if you want to start being sexually active and the thought “God! I need to get laid!” is always entering your mind it’s time to do something about it as you don’t want to end up a 30 or 40 year old virgin.
I was virgin until I was 21 myself. I was a late bloomer could hardly talk to women that I did not know and could not approach
women in high school. In fact in high school I had one date and it was terrible I had no clue about how to act around girls.
I had girls that liked me off and on but I was always to timid to make a move or they were girls I was not that into or they were not perfect.
I made out with a girl for the first time when I was 18 a few months later I could have had sex with her also, but I chose not to because I was not that into her. I few months later I could have had sex with another girl we did everything but intercourse because I didn’t have a condom. I choose to wait again.
When I was 21 I was tired of waiting and a girl I knew (she was 18 and pretty hot) that was into me came over after my birthday party and I had sex for the very first time.
Which lasted for all of 30 seconds…lol 10 minutes later we did it again and she was blown away because I had red so much about sex
that I did not seem like a virgin. We saw each other a few more times and had sex before it ended.
My point of telling my story is it’s ok to wait until you are ready but when you are ready you need to do something about it and if you can’t do it on your own no matter what reason is you might need some help to get things going, once the ball is set in motion the right way it will get easier and easier.
The reason I say the right way is you don’t want to get lucky you want to be a man and be able to attract women and take it to a sexual level so that you know how to do it and you can do it again with other women when ever you choose.
Now online dating can play apart in this but you might be in need of something more in depth like my “Virgin to Man” program, where I work with guys one on one or in a group (if I have enough guys) in person and help then remove all obstacles in their way and then teach them the skills they need to become a man and attract women.
I have both online and in person versions of this and I have to be honest this works much better in person. If you want more info on my program e-mail me.
But in the mean time I have a few suggestions for you…
- Don’t worry about being a virgin or feel insecure about it. Having sex is just another one of lifes great experiences that you have not experienced yet. Just like jumping out of an airplane and skydiving, eating foods you have never tried before or taking up a new sport. It’s nothing less or more than that.
- Some men feel you should hide the fact that you are a virgin because it might be a turn of to some women that like an experienced man. But I don’t agree. The girl I lost my virginity to knew I was a virgin and she was on mission to take my virginity from me.
In fact many women would love to take be a mans first and these women will also be much more understanding because they know it’s your first time.
So I would suggest that you never hide it and if asked openly tell women that ask that you are a virgin and tell them yo view it a just another experience that you have no had yet, like skydiving or driving 150 Mhp in a Lamborghini on the autobahn in Europe. - Learn as much as you can about sexual performance and technique so that you will be confident and have at least some idea of how to please your partner when you do have sex for the first time. Start with my Greatlover 101 course and I also suggest my e-books sold at http://www.greatlovers.com and at http://www.femaleejaculations.com
- If a women laughs or does not like that you’re a virgin she was the wrong one for you and there is no loss there at all, you just weeded out a woman that was not right for your first time.
- Most peoples both men and women’s first time suck or are disapointing. Trust me it will get better and better if you learn how to be a great lover!
I am sorry that I can’t give you more info but your situation is not something that can be solved in a single e-mail.
I hope this helps and as always my goal is your success,
Nico Simon Princely
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