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So what’s a Captain Save-A-Ho?It’s one of those needy or insecure guys that feel they need to buy a women to get some ass. Some Save-A-Ho traits range from taking her out to overly expensive dinners on first dates when you don’t even know her or buying drinks for women you have just met or that are hanging around the bar. (Women often look for some desperate guy to offer to buy them a drink)

Now in the extreme is the REAL Captain Save-A-Ho with cape flowing in the wind and all! This cat is the real deal…He finds some physically hot chick (often lacking in other qualities) and due to his lack of inner game, offers her the world…

For Example… “If your with me baby…I take care of you, you don’t have to do anything but be mine…I’ll pay for your car, your cell phone, you live with me, we’ll go places and do things! I’ll take you shopping!”

Now what he is really saying to her and she knows this on a deeper level is…”Baby I have no self-worth, but I have some cash and I am so desperate to get your ass that I will pay you for it! And let you walk all over me!” What’s even worse is he may want more than just ass and really be in love with her! Then he is really Screwed!

Now often many women will take the guy up on the offer, a free ride is hard to turn down and if…she is…in a bad place and going through some tough times…she might think her prayers are answered and Captain Save-A-Ho looks like a God send. And maybe he is for a short time. After all any way out of a card board box is a way out!

Captain-Save-A-Ho thinks he is in good shape and in control because the girl is now financially dependant on him… He need to be controlling because he is insecure and knows he can’t hold her any other way! Besides he thinks “She would never bite the hand that feeds her!” (Dumbass what other hand is she going to bite, that’s the only one in her face!)

But what ALWAYS happens is she might think she is living the good life but sooner or later these women lose respect for Captain-Save-A-Ho and they are start to see him as he really is Captain-Desperate-Do-Do. And then they actually start to resent him for all he has done for them! And they cheat on him or just up and leave him, usually for a guy that won’t give them time of day! And get this shit in some states where they have common law marriage she can actually get alimony from this guy even if they weren’t married!

She takes the pussy with her but her but he still has to pay for it! OMG! That’s like some one stealing your car and you still have to make the payments!

I have known several women that were with very rich men and some not so rich men and it never works out they leave the guys, the cars, the mansion and the jet’s behind! I know a girl right now that has 13 phone numbers of guys with their own jet’s in her phone and she is not with any of them and they all want her!

Another reason women don’t like Captain-Save-A-Ho is because they don’t respect the guy, they are quickly losing attraction for him, not in love with him and when it all boils down they know they are just there for the money and realize the truth is that they are just BIG HO’S! And he helps make her a HO! He was her trick and she was the Ho!

A woman won’t respect a man who gives her things she has not earned and she is not pulling her weight. You even see it in typical marriages these days…The woman is lazy sits on her ass the guy pays all of the bills and she bosses him around and uses sex to control him and he puts up with it to get some! Crazy! Mean while she might be off boinking the pool boy!

If you’re going to pay for girls at least do it right, do it Like Huge Hefner, don’t have just one have 5 or so living with you, so you all know what the deal is right from the start…Hef’s girls come and go always filling the empty spots as they open up, but as I hear it He make his girls earn it! (More power to you Hef!) They all know what’s up from the start and they also know Hef is NOT desperate which is why he CAN pull it off!

Now some women will bitch and moan about what I just said here and call me cheap for saying this because they don’t want to lose their power and they like to get the dinners and drinks and a free ride (I ain’t say’n she a gold digger but…SHE IS!), but they don’t respect the guys that do that nor are they attracted to them and they know it. And to prove my point a while back I hooked up (had sex with, separately) three girls and all were very attractive, I spent a total of $12.00 on combined on all three (before we had sex)…and that was only after one of them bought me a drink! Why is that, because the truth is a girl is attracted to you or she is not attracted to you and spending money on her is not going to change that! In fact I take that back, spending money on her might actually turn her off if you spend too much!

Now I am not cheap, I am SMART! When I find a girl that is loyal, honest, trustworthy, loving and treats me well…I am very generous with what I have and I have much more than just money…you can ask my last two girls friends and the woman I have been dating now for over 2 years and they will all tell you that I did more for them then any other man they had ever been with, but they earned it! They proved themselves to me and they deserved it!

And to the guys that say “No man women like guys with money!” Sure they do, women love successful men, THAT HAVE SELFWORTH! So if you run into a woman that all about the Benjamins you know what she is already so send her on her way to let her find her Captain!

So the moral of this story is JUST SAY NO TO CAPTAIN SAVE-A-HO