A reader asks “Should I Grow My Hair Long or Cut it Short?”
Zack asks…
“I always see the hottest chicks with the same old boring dudes with the short hair cut. But I love standing out! I use to spike my hair but I felt like I looked like every one else. I see you have long hair and I’m curious about your success.
Like how gorgeous are the girls you get? Cause I don’t know about you but when I have my long hair I’m not trying to attract just rocker chicks but I like the sexy blonde beach babes, the pretty little brunettes that go clubbing, the sophisticated hottest girls.
What do you think should I grow my hair out or cut it short?”
I have not had time to update my pictures or do any new videos lately but I have cut my hair it’s about half way up my neck and the sides down to my chin which is still considered long by today standards and styles. (But it’s not considered long by most men with long hair until it’s past you shoulders.)
First I have to say that the reason I have had long hair most of my life is also that I felt I looked like everyone else. And other men with long hair often feel the same way which is why they grow it out.
At times in the past long hair has been a major advantage for men in attracting women especially in the 80’s and early 90’s then after that it was not in style.
Because mass media i.e. MTV, movies dictate to society what is cool, long hair (past the shoulders) has been out for quite awhile. It’s starting to come back in again though. If you look at the young rockstars starting to come up many have longer hair, the 15-16 year old boys are growing their hair long.
Which leads me to the next point. The girls attracted to long hair right now are15-16 year old (girls because it’s cool to have long hair again in that age range but only if it’s that skinny emo rocker look.) Then on the other end 35-45 year old rocker chicks that still think it’s the 80’s will be drooling over you. So you will mostly attract underage girls that could get you in trouble or older women that you probably don’t want to attract in the first place. (In all fairness there are a few, a very few, older women 35-45 that are really hot if they have taken care of them self. And they are much better in bed than the younger women)
Most hot women in the age range of 21-34 DON’T like long hair. It’s an instant turn off to them. Sure there are 2% of those hot women that instantly like long hair but they are far and few between.
Why did I cut my hair. The same reason I believe Chris Angel did I think. Which was to attract a younger and hotter demographic. I checked out his myspace page, Nick Manning’s (porn Star) page and other guys that had similar looks. Most of the comments were from older women on all of the pages of that I looked at.
So I would not recommend long hair for attracting women. Why set obstacles in your path.
Now if you have game and are interesting and really look good with long hair you can over come it. I did. I have had many women tell me that they did not like long hair on guys but they liked it on me and hooked up with me and yes they were hot.
(To see the kind of women that I date, hook up with and are my friends and my different hair styles visit my personal blog look at “my pics” http://nicosimonprincely.com/blog/)
Bottom line if you want long hair do it for you, that’s why I did it and I actually felt more confident with long hair at one point so that made me more attractive to women.
You will find some women that love it, some will hate it, some will do you just because it’s different and some will absolutely not hook up with you because you have long hair. I have experienced all of the above personally.
In the next 3 years those 16 year olds that like it will be 18-19 so maybe then it will pay off then.
Attraction Tip #1:
If you want to attract a certain type of woman look at the type of men they go for. If all of the hot chicks are going for guys with short boring hair then that’s what they are attracted to. Don’t think by growing long hair you are going to swoop in there and take those short haired guys women. Those women are with them because that is what they want.
Just like here in Vegas most of the women go for guys covered in Tattoos and a Mohawk is a big turn on for them. So don’t think your going to be mister GQ and take all of their women I have heard women say here “I HATE PRETTY BOYS!” They actually prefer ugly men (by conventional standards).
But I am not about to get a bunch of tats and walk around with my hair looking like a Rooster to get laid. Sorry that’s just not me. But remember looks is only a part of what attracts women and not the most important one.
Attraction Tip #2:
You will also see that I had blonde hair at one time. Some women loved it! Some Hate it! You can never please everyone so just please yourself and do what makes you feel most confident and happy but, look well groomed even if you like the rough scroungy look there is a way to do it right. A good example is Johnny Depp who bounces back and forth from long to short all of the time and clean cut to scroungy and women love it all.
