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I’m about to do an interview with very beautiful woman that is a good friend of mine and I sent out an email to my list asking “What question would you like to ask a beautiful woman?”

One of the replies I received back was actually from a woman stating…

“what makes you think that beautiful women think differently?”

So I thought I’d answer that here on my blog for all to see and to get some insight on why beautiful women think differently.

“Hi Elaine,

Thank you for your question…

Being that I know, have known and dated a number of beautiful women and I also have friends that are not as beautiful I know that beautiful women think differently becuase their reality is different from average looking women.

People treat the special based solely on their looks. They get into clubs faster often with no wait at all. They get hired as bartenders with almost no experience when a qualified man has to bar back for up to 2 years first and they get cut last when layoffs come around (at least in Vegas).

NOTE: I don’t want to make this about the special treatment women get over men that’s a whole other story and all women and men should read The Myth of Male Power. Women will see what it’s like to be a man and men will wake up from the lie we have been sold.

If you have ever seen the shows on TV where they take average women and beautiful women and pretend to drop their groceries or their car breaks down. You see how every man comes to the beautiful woman’s rescue yet not the other woman.

The truth is most of them are not even deserving of it and are selfish, demanding, flaky and have nothing else to offer but their looks.  At least in my experience and the experience almost everyman I have talked to. But just the same they are given more opportunities than the average man or women.

Most men are intimidated by beautiful women and are afraid of them especially nice guys. Which why very attractive women often end up with total assholes as boyfriends as they are usually the only men that have the balls to approach and talk to them and not kiss their ass like everyone else.

Many skate through life by relying on their looks alone and have spent little if any time to develop themselves spiritually (and I’m not talking about religion) or develop their personality and to many a book is to them like cryptonite is to superman.  One reason is that they are generally bombarded with social offers from age 16 on continuously and are almost never single for any length of time.

They just never needed to have anything but looks so they never bothered. I mean I’m sure I would not have spent nearly as much time developing myself personally if since the age of 16 I was constantly asked out and offered sex by almost every attractive woman I met. How would I have had the time and why would I care I’d be having so much fun. But I also would not be the well rounded intelligent person I was today, so there is the downside. In fairness there are tons of good looking shallow men as well, but they can’t get away with it like women can. Men are required to have a brain or both men and women look down on them.

A lot of women are jealous of beautiful women as well and often trying to compete with them. So you see their  reality is NOT one of the average women and when your reality is that different your thinking MUST be different. Just as Rich person thinks much differently from a poor person, and great athletes think differently than couch potatoes, in almost every aspect of their lives other than the core human desires of survival, wanting connection and love etc…

By your email address I’m guessing you’re a model and you are attractive. If so then you have no idea what I am talking about becuase it is your natural reality and you think it’s also everyone else’s but it’s not. And unless you have been less attractive in the past you have no point of reference or contrasting experience to understand it by.

That’s why some of the coolest women I have met were ugly ducklings that became beautiful swans. That experience gave them compassion for others, and appreciation & gratitude for what they now have, and also time to develop themselves on the inside as they grew into their beauty.

The saddest case is the woman that has been beautiful all of her life and never needed  nor took the time to develop her inner self or personality, often rude and demanding, with a huge ego. When her looks start to fade and there is nothing on the inside she has no value to anyone at all, as who wants to be with a shallow, selfish, demanding, ego maniac that not all that hot anymore. After all she was really only good for one thing and sometimes not even good at that. ;o)

Anyway I am going to be interviewing some very attractive women starting with a friend of mine that does have a heart of gold and is not only a very beautiful women model but also a mother of 2 sons.

I hope this answers your question.

Nico”

PS: To those few rare women that are beautiful both on the inside and out I salute you and thank you as you make the world a better place and truly inspire us as men to be better ourselves.

PPS: When I speak of beauty, beauty is in the eye of the boholder, however what I am talking about in this article is the general concenus of what is considered beautiful in the American Culture where I live. How ever no matter if you are in a tribe in africa where being fat with bones in your nose or in the moutains of the amazon were certain marking are considered more attractive, if you are considered beautiful what I said applies.

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