Nico’s Online Dating, Pickup & Seduction Blog.

I just got back from a birthday party at a bar that I was invited to by a new Facebook friend that I made from interacting with an old friend (He and I met through out ex-girlfriends before they were our ex’s) We lost touch and recently reconnected Via Facebook. After commenting on his posts other women started adding me and here I am making new friends and being invited to birthday parties.

Now at the birthday party I did some Social Networking old school style in person face to face and that was invited to a Black Tie New Years party. After that I decided to just chill and two women one after another approached me at the bar. One gave me her card after the conversation ended, the other I left to go to the restroom and did not make contact again with because I was busy networking with the people I was sitting with.

So what is the point of all of this. I want to to see how this all fits together how one event can link to another and open entire new worlds of possibility.

I have been working really hard and basically stopped dating, socializing and just focused on work for the past 3 months. I mean 18 hour days, I also lost friends over this and choose to end some friendships as well that were not being reciprocal and felt one sided to me. I’m not much for having dead weight in my life.

So I knew I need to get out and socialize make new connections and start dating again now that my products are finished and about to launch.

So I put my intention out there, and then took action, followed up and said “Yes” to the opportunity presented to me (if you have not seen the movie “YES MAN” with Jim Carrey you should rent it and watch it.) I said yes to one invitation, which equaled several new contacts/friends, an invite to another party for New Years, a phone number from a woman that initiated contact with me and who knows how many more connections I’ll make from this one event that all came from an invite I got on Facebook. Another time I met smoking hot girl that I dated for awhile that I met out at a club from another birthday party I was invited to on Myspace.

Tonight I also said “Have a nice life to two girls” I previously met on Myspace, because when there is a disconnect there is no reason to hold on to something that’s not working out or is too difficult or in the case of one of them she was playing games. The other I screwed up but learned a valuable lesson in the process.

SIDE NOTE: Yes that’s right I said I screwed up. I’m not perfect and I still make mistakes and anyone that claims they are is a lair or trying to con you in some way. In this case my ego got in the way and I was putting obstacles in my own path…But I learned and plan I doing a issue in my new Special Subjects Multimedia Newsletter on “Cock Blocking Yourself /Self-Sabotage” so others can learn from my mistake and what I learned.

So I just said bye to one and deleted both them from my phone. Something a lot of men do is they keep trying to make it work even when the signs are clear you should just move on. Don’t live in scarcity live in a state of abundance knowing that you are always attracting more and better into your life.

I learned a lesson and then I let go of it and moved on and look women started approaching me and I got invited to another place where there are even more possibilities. It’s a chain-reaction from one action that multiplies your possibilities.

So get out there and take action, make new friends both male and female online and offline. I will tell you my male friends have hooked me up 100 times more than any of my female friends so make male friends and don’t cock block or go after their girls that comes from a scarcity mentality. When you live in abundance you know there is enough for every one.

Well that’s all for now!