I was having conversation on face book actually on a the topic of Good and Evil and being selfish and selfless when the guy said “Show me a guy who won’t pick up the check and I’ll show you a coward.”

I’ll share with you my response to this utter bullshit that men have been brainwashed by, that makes us subservient to women, as opposed to the dominant men we are by nature.

My response…

“This one is PURE BULLSHIT  “I tell my girls “Show me a guy who won’t pick up the check and I’ll show you a coward.”

So you’re perpetuating the CON JOB that women have pulled over men’s eyes. Women after demanding equal rights not only have them but also still want special treatment. Women often make more than men, yet still expect men to pay their way. Any time a women wants to manipulate a man all she has to do is attack his ego…with “If you were a real man you’d do such and such for me” or “Only a coward would do such and such”

You my friend are stabbing your own fellow man in the back when you perpetuate that outdated, belief that women use to Con Men. You’re also sub-communicating that you are looking for their approval and are easily manipulated.

This an outdated load of B.S. that puts everything in their favor and sets it up for men to be taken advantage, used and manipulated. Sure 70 years ago it made since when women did not have as much power as they do today.

Today an attractive women can virtually live of men giving nothing in return like a parasite and still work while making a living and saving all of her money. Some women have several men they rely on to pay their bill and buy them stuff.  And dumb men allow it to happen thinking “They are REAL MEN”…Yeah “REAL DUMB MEN”

When that practice was useful 70 years ago and before at that time women respected men, honored men, and valued men. If you think that still the case you are delusional.

When I go out with my female friends they know to pay their way. They are not my girlfriend, I’m not having sex with them and I’m not paying their way. And they do not to try to pull that crap with me becuase I’m smarter than that. They also respect me and value you, invite me places and hook me up. I do the same for them. Often even the women I have sex with pay their way or take me out. Why not? Are they doing me a favor to have sex with me that I need to pay for? I think not! They get as much or more pleasure in many cases (as women can have multiple orgasms) as I do.

If you want to show them a coward look in the mirror right after you say that B.S. line. Because what you are really saying when you pay their way just becuase they are female is “I don’t have the balls to respect and value myself first, I’m putting you on a pedestal, and you have more value than me and I’m looking for your approval becuase I’d rather pay than be alone.” In short I value you more than I value myself.

Women love to Scream Equal Rights and Feminist until the Check come…what a lot of crap! Then they shut up and see who is the sucker!

Women string men along like that for years, few women have the decency to say “I’m not really interested in you so I’ll pay my way, becuase it’s not fair for you to pay for me when you’re getting nothing in return.” Or ” You know you pay all of the time it’s my turn tonight”

Now if they are reciprocal and hook you up with other women, jobs, tickets, shows, contacts or are there for you then sure pay their way. But when it’s all take and no given your not being a REAL MAN you’re being fool. Ask any of those women you are pickup the check for for “Personal loan” or Real favor and see how many will come to your aid.

And if you want to call me a coward for not offering to pay the way for a woman that I’m not sleeping with/dating or that is not providing real value in my life fine…I know better than that as I have saved a man from his house burning down, saved a women from a masked rapist in her apartment, and jump out a car where I was safe and then got the crap beat out of me to save a good friend from a gang when all of his other friends just stood there and watched.

What you cowardliness I call self-respect. And have had women take me out to dinner many times, do things for me to show me they value me. I’m a REAL MAN and I expect RESPECT, HONOR and to BE VALUED.

Now when a woman has proven to me that she is of value and worthy of what I have to give I’m very generous as any of my Ex-GF can and will attest.

I can see our thinking is radically different and I have work to do so I’ll end this here with “I agree to disagree”

I think I use my response on my blog, so thanks for the inspiration.

PS: If you are just loaded with money and want to give to every one all of the time. That’s a different story…If I had $100,000,000 I’d be walking down the street giving away  $100 bills randomly daily. But I still would not want to be taken advantage of.”

That’s the end of my response. One thing I would ad is don;t ask women about this or talk to them about it of course they are going to disagree becuase they don’t want to lose their power over men. But the fact is that I myself and a ton of men  that I know who have sex with very attractive women do it without spending hardly any money at times. Because attraction is not based on spending money attraction has been around since before money was invented.

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For every girl that has a broken heart...

For every girl that has a broken heart…over some lying, cheating, jerk that treated her like crap. There are 10 nice guys that are heart broken because they have never even been given a chance, because they are invisible, because they are too nice.

Women have the power to change the world and make it a better place but they don’t do it. If women would not have sex with men that are thugs, gangsters, crooks, unethical, and dishonest. Those men would either die out or change their ways.

But women don’t do that in fact many women get into relationships with men in prison or repeat offenders as soon as the get on death row. They run back to those that abuse them.

A convicted wife beater once said “Women are like dogs the more you beat them the more they love you!”

Yet most smart, nice, honest, guys can’t get laid to save their life. Unless they make it big and get rich or famous. Will it ever change?

His Question:

An interesting question, Nico, but here is another one; You, Nico, you seem to get a lot of attention from women… and I know that you are not ’some lying, cheating, jerk that treated her like crap’. You would not do that. So is it safe to assume that you are ‘rich or famous’?

Also I don’t believe in that ‘dogs/women love you more when you beat them theory’. I respectfully disagree with that ‘convicted wife beater’… I have come across some legal reports where battered wives set their husbands on fire while they were asleep as an act of revenge. I don’t think being violent is the best way to get unconditional love from your woman (or your dog). lol.

My answer:

Those are some very good questions…You lawyers always seem to come up with some good ones…lol

1. While I’m not Rich & Famous (but working on it…lol) I’m not poor and in some social circles I am fairly recognizable.

2. I also don’t condone the abuse or beating of women, dogs (or any other animal) or even other men unless in self-defense. And in extreme cases where the abuse is very bad or over a very long period of time they often turn on the person and attack back, both women and dogs. But the fact remains women do run back to abusive men over and over again.

So how is it that according to what I have said above that I attract women?

Those Abusive Men and Jerks also have some other good qualities that women are attracted to such as…

Taking charge, Confidence, standing their ground, putting her in her place when she gets out of line, and high inner status a sense of humor, very sexually aggressive, all of which are classic alpha male qualities. I assume most also have a soft side as well.

Well I also have those traits albeit I worked hard to develop many of them as I was raised without a father figure, most of my life. I just don’t have the abusive or violent side.

So a man like me is what most of those women are really looking for as far as qualities go (looks on the other hand are subjective, I may or may not be physically attractive depending on the woman image of what she deems attractive) As those women generally are not looking to be abused (some however are or have a subconscious pattern than makes them seek abuse over and over again.)

But when I was younger and stupid I used to punch holes in walls, throw cell phones at the ground and break shit (always my own stuff) until I realized that it was costing me too much money and grew up.

But some women like that stupid shit, well let’s not say they actually like it, but it does give them something to talk about with all of their girlfriends and keep you in their mind all day…lol It also keeps them wondering “What crazy stupid thing is he going to do next!” As opposed to the boring smart, even tempered nice guy who is predictable and did I mention boring.

Drama equals excitement for some people. Why did I do it because I felt I need to show someone how upset I was. Yes it was immature, and stupid but you know what I never had a girl leave me for it. It provides a emotional roller coaster that they most often are more than happy to ride.

Think about it women love to watch soaps (Drama), read romance novels (Drama), talk about their friends problems (Drama). Most of them are basically Drama junkies and nice guys are to boring.

So to some it up I have many of the Alpha Male traits. I’m not boring because of my lifestyle, have social proof and I have the soft side as well.

Does that mean all women will be attracted to me. No, the women that are truly attracted to hardcore abusive men that look like white trash, thugs will not be into me. And the gold diggers looking for a free ride also not find much here as I am not out to buy anyone.

Smart women generally love me because unlike most of the guys they are attracted to physically I can talk about things other than, bands, trucks, and extreme sports and actually like to hear what they have to say. The only problems is most really hot women are not that smart because everyone let’s them slide by on their looks so they have no reason to develop their mind.

The thing that still amazes me is women that are attracted to men that look, like white trash, act like what trash, talk like white trash, start fights or has a history of hitting women. And then they are surprised when they get hit or beaten Or maybe it’s the excitement and drama wondering “Is he going to hit me?”

This course will go into detail about what creates attraction and…

• Give you an understanding of how women think
• What an alpha male is and what is his traits and how to display those traits
• Why nice guys don’t get laid  and what the nice guy/wussy traits are
• Why some men are naturals and what to do if your not one
• The most powerful forces that create attraction
• What women are attracted to specifically
• Why women love jerks, bad boys, Musicians, Actors, Dj’s and Jocks!
• How to Create Attraction
• Why women lose attraction to men and dump them.
• and much much more!

I hope to release the course in the next 30 days. But man this is a lot of work and it’s not easy to put this together.

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So what’s a Captain Save-A-Ho?It’s one of those needy or insecure guys that feel they need to buy a women to get some ass. Some Save-A-Ho traits range from taking her out to overly expensive dinners on first dates when you don’t even know her or buying drinks for women you have just met or that are hanging around the bar. (Women often look for some desperate guy to offer to buy them a drink)

Now in the extreme is the REAL Captain Save-A-Ho with cape flowing in the wind and all! This cat is the real deal…He finds some physically hot chick (often lacking in other qualities) and due to his lack of inner game, offers her the world…

For Example… “If your with me baby…I take care of you, you don’t have to do anything but be mine…I’ll pay for your car, your cell phone, you live with me, we’ll go places and do things! I’ll take you shopping!”

Now what he is really saying to her and she knows this on a deeper level is…”Baby I have no self-worth, but I have some cash and I am so desperate to get your ass that I will pay you for it! And let you walk all over me!” What’s even worse is he may want more than just ass and really be in love with her! Then he is really Screwed!

Now often many women will take the guy up on the offer, a free ride is hard to turn down and if…she is…in a bad place and going through some tough times…she might think her prayers are answered and Captain Save-A-Ho looks like a God send. And maybe he is for a short time. After all any way out of a card board box is a way out!

Captain-Save-A-Ho thinks he is in good shape and in control because the girl is now financially dependant on him… He need to be controlling because he is insecure and knows he can’t hold her any other way! Besides he thinks “She would never bite the hand that feeds her!” (Dumbass what other hand is she going to bite, that’s the only one in her face!)

But what ALWAYS happens is she might think she is living the good life but sooner or later these women lose respect for Captain-Save-A-Ho and they are start to see him as he really is Captain-Desperate-Do-Do. And then they actually start to resent him for all he has done for them! And they cheat on him or just up and leave him, usually for a guy that won’t give them time of day! And get this shit in some states where they have common law marriage she can actually get alimony from this guy even if they weren’t married!

She takes the pussy with her but her but he still has to pay for it! OMG! That’s like some one stealing your car and you still have to make the payments!

I have known several women that were with very rich men and some not so rich men and it never works out they leave the guys, the cars, the mansion and the jet’s behind! I know a girl right now that has 13 phone numbers of guys with their own jet’s in her phone and she is not with any of them and they all want her!

Another reason women don’t like Captain-Save-A-Ho is because they don’t respect the guy, they are quickly losing attraction for him, not in love with him and when it all boils down they know they are just there for the money and realize the truth is that they are just BIG HO’S! And he helps make her a HO! He was her trick and she was the Ho!

A woman won’t respect a man who gives her things she has not earned and she is not pulling her weight. You even see it in typical marriages these days…The woman is lazy sits on her ass the guy pays all of the bills and she bosses him around and uses sex to control him and he puts up with it to get some! Crazy! Mean while she might be off boinking the pool boy!

If you’re going to pay for girls at least do it right, do it Like Huge Hefner, don’t have just one have 5 or so living with you, so you all know what the deal is right from the start…Hef’s girls come and go always filling the empty spots as they open up, but as I hear it He make his girls earn it! (More power to you Hef!) They all know what’s up from the start and they also know Hef is NOT desperate which is why he CAN pull it off!

Now some women will bitch and moan about what I just said here and call me cheap for saying this because they don’t want to lose their power and they like to get the dinners and drinks and a free ride (I ain’t say’n she a gold digger but…SHE IS!), but they don’t respect the guys that do that nor are they attracted to them and they know it. And to prove my point a while back I hooked up (had sex with, separately) three girls and all were very attractive, I spent a total of $12.00 on combined on all three (before we had sex)…and that was only after one of them bought me a drink! Why is that, because the truth is a girl is attracted to you or she is not attracted to you and spending money on her is not going to change that! In fact I take that back, spending money on her might actually turn her off if you spend too much!

Now I am not cheap, I am SMART! When I find a girl that is loyal, honest, trustworthy, loving and treats me well…I am very generous with what I have and I have much more than just money…you can ask my last two girls friends and the woman I have been dating now for over 2 years and they will all tell you that I did more for them then any other man they had ever been with, but they earned it! They proved themselves to me and they deserved it!

And to the guys that say “No man women like guys with money!” Sure they do, women love successful men, THAT HAVE SELFWORTH! So if you run into a woman that all about the Benjamins you know what she is already so send her on her way to let her find her Captain!

So the moral of this story is JUST SAY NO TO CAPTAIN SAVE-A-HO

“My MySpace looks fun and attractive to me, and as far as I’m concerned, that’s all that matters. So far the only women who have sought me out through MySpace are those webcam whores who are looking for as many “friends” as possible to brag about to their real life peers and/or to steal my credit card info. No thanks.

My frustration comes out of me actually doing VERY WELL with women socially. I make them feel comfortable with me, I respect them and they respect me, I am a great conversationalist/listener, basically I’m what almost every woman I meet would consider a great guy. But the SECOND I make any sort of indication that I want to get personally involved, they freak out and never want to speak to me again. Apart from paying patronage to the bar/nightclub scene (a scene which I experimented with and felt completely out of my element), there’s not a lot that I’m doing different from more successful guys. I can make friends very easily, but I’m somehow unable to attract women the way my friends do.”

MY ANSWER…

I am not one to bullshit and waste my time or yours. So I am going to give it to you straight. I can tell a lot by what you said in your e-mail without even seeing what you look like.

First of you said “My MySpace looks fun and attractive to me, and as far as I’m concerned, that’s all that matters. “ WRONG that’s not what matters. That’s a cop out! What matters is if it produces the results you desire period. And it’s not. Your opinion does not matter.

Your attitude is that you don’t care if it works so then stop complaining about it not working since you are obviously not open to trying something else. You can expect the same results you are getting now, forever, since you are unwilling to change.

You sound like someone that wants to lose weight but is not willing to stop eating a dozen donuts and sitting on the couch all day long everyday. Meaning if you want to change your life you have to “Change Your Life” Until your willing to do that expect the same results you are getting now.

Second, you are a typical nice guy. How do I know? Because I used to be one and was never more miserable in my life.

I can read it loud and clear when you say…

“My frustration comes out of me actually doing VERY WELL with women socially.”

Now let’s be honest here. You are doing terrible with women becuase you are not getting to a sexual level with them. Who cares if you have a bunch of women friends.

Are they doing anything for you? When was the last time one took you to dinner, brought you food when you were sick, helped you with something, set you up with a friend of theirs, invited you to a party? If you going to have women friends make sure they are earning their keep and doing something of real value in your life and being real friends and helping you to meet other women. If they are not then remove them from your life. And DON’T SPEND ANY MONEY ON THEM make them pay their own way. Or they see “NICE GUY – SUCKER” written all over your face every time they look at you.

I don’t believe in the PENIS TAX (Meaning you pay for women becuase your a man, that’s a con job women make stupid men fall for. And if a woman if uses that “A REAL MAN PAYS FOR WOMEN” manipulation tactic or calls you cheap don’t fall for it they are only out to use you for what ever they can get. If your not sleeping with her she should pay her own way, becuase after all you’re just friends right. My female friends (many of which I have had sex with in the past and now we are just friends) know they have to pull their weight and be real friends and pay their own way.

Often I make the girls I have sex with pay their own way or even take me to dinner sometimes and so do all of the men I know that are most successful with women. (Some of you men reading this are thinking this is bullshit that it can’t possibly be true that women take me to dinner. Let me tell you when a woman really likes you and wants you she will take you to dinner, all of my girlfriends I have ever had took me out to dinner at some point before they became my girlfriends, being amazing in bed also helps. The price of dinner is nothing to a woman who you just gave the best sex of her life) I also reciprocate and I am very thoughtful and generous once a woman has proven her loyalty, friendship and earned my trust through her actions, but that takes awhile and a lot on her part.

You also said “there’s not a lot that I’m doing different from more successful guys.”

Yes there is a lot you are doing different but it’s all very subtle and you are not seeing it, but the women are and it starts with your mindset and is reflecting in all of your actions.

I used to be the nice guy and sound just like you.

Your problem stems from…

1.The fact that you have no understanding of what women respond to. You are listening to what they say they want or advice from other women like your mother or sister or female friends. NEVER listen to advice from women about what women want in a man. Why? Because what women are sexually attracted to is unconscious to them so they will tell you what they consciously want and not what they are unconsciously attracted to. Which is NOT what they respond to.

In fact their intellect and ego will often prevent them from telling you what turns them on. Because no self respecting woman is going to come out and say “I like a man that puts me on an emotional roller coaster and makes me feel insecure, and puts me in my place.” Yet that is exactly the guys they date.

I spent years developing myself into what I mistakenly thought women wanted based on what they say they want. I was intelligent, I was good in bed, I was honest, I respected them, I was a Gentleman, I was sensitive. I went 2 years without getting laid one time and over a year another time. None of those qualities matter to women in the realm of sexual attraction.

I was in a celibate hell in which I watched women I was attracted to have sex with pricks, assholes, jerks, that were selfish in bed and that did not give a shit about them while they flaked and snubbed me or just wanted to be my friend. And no one could tell me what was wrong with me, it was not my looks, or how I dressed. It was in my mind and in my actions and behavior.

2. You are not open to change. You want different results by doing the same actions and it’s never going to happen.

Solution:

1. Learn The Psychology of Attraction and what women want and take action and apply it. (This Blog and newsletter will help.)

2. Change your beliefs about women, yourself and your ability to attract women and get sexual with them and then act accordingly.

If you want real help with your situation and want to make a real transformation I am available for private one-on-one coaching. Or you can just stay in your current situation for as long as you like. It makes no difference to me I really don’t need the money, but I like to help people that truly want to change their life.

I have been watching “The Celebrity Apprentice” for the last couple of episodes and one thing that has stood out to me is how Gene Simmons is the Alpha Male of the show.

By default “The Donald” (Trump) is put in the position of power and as the dominant Alpha Male of the show. Then you have all of the members of Hydra on the male team…

• Lennox Lewis
• Gene Simmons
• Stephen Baldwin
• Tito Ortiz
• Vincent Pastore
• Piers Morgan

All of them rich, successful Alpha Males in their own right, but when you watch it is very apparent that the Dominant Alpha Male of the show is Gene Simmons from the way he handled the first and second challenges to the way he dresses and his interactions with Trump and Ivanka.

You can see this when Gene shows in interest in Ivanka when in one of the deleted scenes he asks if she can stay with the guys after Trump introduces her to the male team.

Then in the second challenge when he demonstrates his dominance over Ivanka when she comes in to check up on the male team. He knew exactly what he was doing. Not only did he show dominance and high status but he also provoked an emotional reaction in her that kept her focus and attention on him in her mind for several hours.

Later he apologized which did not make him look weak but cordial and by that time he had already accomplished his goal of both showing dominance and creating an emotional reaction in her. Just like when a lawyer says something in a trial and the judge over rules it and instructs the jury to disregard that statement. The lawyer knows that once it has been said the damage has been done and it’s in the minds of the jury and telling them to disregard it will not undo what he has done.

Gene of course is a legendary Rock Star, and brilliant marketer who is primarily responsible for the massive income generated by K.I.S.S. as well as his other business projects. No doubt if he had the startup capital that The Donald had to start with, his fortune would be equally as large.

He is also known for having had sex with over 4800 women (while having a living girlfriend that accepts his sexual escapades) and having a long highly skilled tongue. So when he shows interest in a woman they know what it means and he makes no apologies about it (Very Alpha Indeed.)

He is always calm, cool and collected and resolute, free of inner conflict and if you notice he always does something that sets him apart from the other males on the team making him look more Alpha than the rest of them.

Gene’s persona is a exploding with Alpha Male traits like success, talent, intelligence, and charisma and a I do it my way attitude (but that’s because he actually know how to do it the best way). But you see when he gets into an area that some else knows better then him he delegates responsibility accordingly rather than trying to do it all himself and end up looking like a fool.

For example when he let Stephen Baldwin direct the commercial in the second episode. But when they could not control the traffic on the street he took charge and brought it back to where they were in a controlled environment.

It will be interesting to see how this plays out but my money is on Gene Simmons to win the show but even if he doesn’t he is still the Alpha Male of the bunch in this environment.

After all his competition is not even close to his level.

First off we have two fighters which are usually not known for their business acumen, and I am not in anyway saying they are stupid, but only that the best athletes are not always the best business men. They are good at what they do, which is deliver amazing physical performance beyond what the average man can do. This is just not their chosen arena so they are at a disadvanatage.

However if there is a brawl challenge I give it to Tito Ortiz. No disrespect to Lennox Lewis but a grappler will almost always take a Boxer. Maybe one of these two will surprise me who knows?

Next we have Piers Morgan who has already put his foot in his mouth a few times and in the first episode was turning away customers with an attitude trying to sell $100 hot dogs. He looked like a rude prick if I had been there I would have told him to shut up and stop turning people away as it’s just bad business and sends out negative energy, what ever happened to service with a smile.

If it had not been for Gene Simmons the women would have won because they were taking all donations big and small and because of it the women did over $7K without big spenders.

Next are the two Actors Stephen Baldwin and Vincent Pastore. Stephen has already proven his worth but I don’t see any threat to Gene from either of them unless Vincent has him whacked! LOL

Now a good match would have been if Arnold Schwarzenegger, Bill Gates and Bill Clinton, That Asshole from American Idol (what’s his name again?) and George Forman Had been on the show with Gene.

That’s all for now and as always your success is my goal,

Nico Simon Princely