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How to get women to respond to your emails…

Friday, January 11th, 2008

Many, many, readers have written to me asking:

“How do I get her attention to make her interested in a conversation?”

“How can I get girls to respond back to me when I email them?”

“I can’t even get women to reply to my e-mails, what do I do?”


Without question the questions that I am asked most often about online dating in some variation or another is basically “How do I get women to respond to my e-mails?”

This seems to be the biggest obstacle for most men in meeting & picking up women online. They can’t get women to respond to their opening e-mail. This is really analogous to the initial approach when meeting a woman off line in the real world.

Online via e-mail just like in the real world you only get one chance at a first impression so your opening e-mail can make or break you chance at meeting that woman you are planning to e-mail. You opening e-mail is one of the most important tools you have in meeting women online 2nd only to your profile.

After spending 4 years online meeting women, I have learned what works and what does not work when contacting women online and distilled it down to workable consistent formula that any man can learn and use to be successful with women online with a little practice and effort.

The correct method for meeting women online is not something I can tell you in one or two paragraphs so I have written a 10 page special report in adobe .pdf format that you can download for free by signing up to my free newsletter at http://www.pickupwomenonline.com

It contains my top 4 techniques for getting women to respond to your e-mails.

Your success is my goal,

Nico Simon Princely

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Why a Brad Pitt clone has little sucess meeting women online…

Thursday, January 10th, 2008

BJ wrote:
“I look like a young Brad Pitt and I fill out my profile very well.
Still not much success, very confusing”

Hi BJ,
Ok so you have the first part down, you’re lucky enough to be
naturally good looking.

So why is it that someone that looks like you does not do as well
as I do online?

It’s obviously not my looks, while some women do think I am good
looking others don’t basically they love me or hate me there is
not much middle ground with me. I rate a 7 to 7.7 on hot or not.

You have a look that would appeal to more women than I do.
So the answer is what you are doing is NOT working, you are not
contacting them the right way, or your profile is not conveying
attractive qualities.

There are two problems men that are good looking run into:

1.They try to rely just on their looks.
Unlike women that can rely on just their looks to attract most men.
This does not work well with women. Because women are attracted more
to a mans action and they way he interacts with them than they are
to his looks in most cases.

They look for traits and qualities where we look for physical
attributes. Let me give you an example of how men and women differ
at this.

US (Men)        Them (Women)
Great Body     Confidence
Nice tits           Status
Great Ass        The way he makes her feel
Pretty Face     The way he carries himself

The above is just an example and not a direct correlation.

Now some women are more physical than others and are attracted
to model type guys. But of all of the naturals I know the
best looking model type guys are NOT the ones that get the most
or hottest g1rls. It’s the ones that have personality and convey
the alpha male qualities The ones that and are good looking are
virtually unstoppable. Some of them are not all that much to look at
but they are fun, outgoing and keep the women laughing.

2. If your good looking most women think your a player.
I have been told this by women that find me good looking, that I
intimidate them becuase I am always hanging out with hot women
(or so they think based on my pictures) or they think I am a
player and don’t trust me and are afraid to give me a chance
because they will get hurt.

So as a good looking man in addition to not relying on your
looks and developing a personality you also need to overcome
their fears that you are a player or man whore.

If you have not done so I suggest that you visit my site
pickupwomenonline.com and sign up for my free newsletter where
I answer all kinds of questions related to online dating.

Your success is my goal,

Nico Simon Princely

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