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Meeting and Picking up girls online with your webcam…

Sunday, July 11th, 2010

If you haven’t noticed everything is all about video these days. More and more people have webcams now that almost all laptops and most desktops ship with built in webcams. So it only natural that people are webcamming (not sure if that’s a word or not but I’m going to use it anyway) much more frequently. In my home study course I talk about meeting women and getting them to go on cam with you.

But now you can actually meet them on cam so that you can start  off with greater impact and make an emotional connection right from the start! It’s awesome!

Also there is no awkwardness or weirdness asking her to go on cam. Because she’s not going to think you’re a perv trying to get her to get on cam to get naked because she is already on cam and in an virtual environment where being on cam is completely normal and everyone is doing it including her!

One of the fastest growing places for meeting women on cam is WooMe.

I signed up the months ago but honestly have not been very active. But I’m about to change all of that and start getting active on there now that I have a bit more free time. It’s really a lot of fun. And I have seen quite a few hot girls on there at least in my area!

I suggest that you go sign up for a free account and try it out. And please you this link below because you are helping to support this newsletter when you do and I really appreciate it. Visit WooMe Now!

When you login you will have to create a profile, upload load picture, etc…  just like on all other social sites. So you need to know how to construct a quality profile and the best pictures to upload. If you know how to do that you’re good to go but if you don’t  I cover both in depth in my Home Study Course.

Now a few tips for you…

  1. When you’re meeting women on cam you the rules of attraction DO NOT CHANGE, you still need to present yourself as an attractive man and display the Alpha Male qualities.
  2. Above all you can’t be dull or boring, you only have a couple of minutes to make a good first impression.
  3. Have fun and show your personality…no one wants to sit there and look at  someone that can’t think of anything to say.
  4. Ask her questions about herself, her surroundings, her pets, her interests on her profile.
  5. Click here now and go sign up for a free trial and try it out!

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A Nice Guy Asks “Why aren’t women attracted to me?”

Sunday, March 23rd, 2008

I just got an email from a viewer of my videos. His situation is such a common one I decided to post my response here on my blog.

“My MySpace looks fun and attractive to me, and as far as I’m concerned, that’s all that matters. So far the only women who have sought me out through MySpace are those webcam whores who are looking for as many “friends” as possible to brag about to their real life peers and/or to steal my credit card info. No thanks. :P

My frustration comes out of me actually doing VERY WELL with women socially. I make them feel comfortable with me, I respect them and they respect me, I am a great conversationalist/listener, basically I’m what almost every woman I meet would consider a great guy. But the SECOND I make any sort of indication that I want to get personally involved, they freak out and never want to speak to me again. Apart from paying patronage to the bar/nightclub scene (a scene which I experimented with and felt completely out of my element), there’s not a lot that I’m doing different from more successful guys. I can make friends very easily, but I’m somehow unable to attract women the way my friends do.”


I am not one to bullshit and waste my time or yours. So I am going to give it to you straight. I can tell a lot by what you said in your e-mail without even seeing what you look like.

First of you said “My MySpace looks fun and attractive to me, and as far as I’m concerned, that’s all that matters. “ WRONG that’s not what matters. That’s a cop out! What matters is if it produces the results you desire period. And it’s not. Your opinion does not matter.

Your attitude is that you don’t care if it works so then stop complaining about it not working since you are obviously not open to trying something else. You can expect the same results you are getting now, forever, since you are unwilling to change.

You sound like someone that wants to lose weight but is not willing to stop eating a dozen donuts and sitting on the couch all day long everyday. Meaning if you want to change your life you have to “Change Your Life” Until your willing to do that expect the same results you are getting now.

Second, you are a typical nice guy. How do I know? Because I used to be one and was never more miserable in my life.

I can read it loud and clear when you say…

“My frustration comes out of me actually doing VERY WELL with women socially.”

Now let’s be honest here. You are doing terrible with women becuase you are not getting to a sexual level with them. Who cares if you have a bunch of women friends.

Are they doing anything for you? When was the last time one took you to dinner, brought you food when you were sick, helped you with something, set you up with a friend of theirs, invited you to a party? If you going to have women friends make sure they are earning their keep and doing something of real value in your life and being real friends and helping you to meet other women. If they are not then remove them from your life. And DON’T SPEND ANY MONEY ON THEM make them pay their own way. Or they see “NICE GUY – SUCKER” written all over your face every time they look at you.

I don’t believe in the PENIS TAX (Meaning you pay for women becuase your a man, that’s a con job women make stupid men fall for. And if a woman if uses that “A REAL MAN PAYS FOR WOMEN” manipulation tactic or calls you cheap don’t fall for it they are only out to use you for what ever they can get. If your not sleeping with her she should pay her own way, becuase after all you’re just friends right. My female friends (many of which I have had sex with in the past and now we are just friends) know they have to pull their weight and be real friends and pay their own way.

Often I make the girls I have sex with pay their own way or even take me to dinner sometimes and so do all of the men I know that are most successful with women. (Some of you men reading this are thinking this is bullshit that it can’t possibly be true that women take me to dinner. Let me tell you when a woman really likes you and wants you she will take you to dinner, all of my girlfriends I have ever had took me out to dinner at some point before they became my girlfriends, being amazing in bed also helps. The price of dinner is nothing to a woman who you just gave the best sex of her life) I also reciprocate and I am very thoughtful and generous once a woman has proven her loyalty, friendship and earned my trust through her actions, but that takes awhile and a lot on her part.

You also said “there’s not a lot that I’m doing different from more successful guys.”

Yes there is a lot you are doing different but it’s all very subtle and you are not seeing it, but the women are and it starts with your mindset and is reflecting in all of your actions.

I used to be the nice guy and sound just like you.

Your problem stems from…

1.The fact that you have no understanding of what women respond to. You are listening to what they say they want or advice from other women like your mother or sister or female friends. NEVER listen to advice from women about what women want in a man. Why? Because what women are sexually attracted to is unconscious to them so they will tell you what they consciously want and not what they are unconsciously attracted to. Which is NOT what they respond to.

In fact their intellect and ego will often prevent them from telling you what turns them on. Because no self respecting woman is going to come out and say “I like a man that puts me on an emotional roller coaster and makes me feel insecure, and puts me in my place.” Yet that is exactly the guys they date.

I spent years developing myself into what I mistakenly thought women wanted based on what they say they want. I was intelligent, I was good in bed, I was honest, I respected them, I was a Gentleman, I was sensitive. I went 2 years without getting laid one time and over a year another time. None of those qualities matter to women in the realm of sexual attraction.

I was in a celibate hell in which I watched women I was attracted to have sex with pricks, assholes, jerks, that were selfish in bed and that did not give a shit about them while they flaked and snubbed me or just wanted to be my friend. And no one could tell me what was wrong with me, it was not my looks, or how I dressed. It was in my mind and in my actions and behavior.

2. You are not open to change. You want different results by doing the same actions and it’s never going to happen.


1. Learn The Psychology of Attraction and what women want and take action and apply it. (This Blog and newsletter will help.)

2. Change your beliefs about women, yourself and your ability to attract women and get sexual with them and then act accordingly.

If you want real help with your situation and want to make a real transformation I am available for private one-on-one coaching. Or you can just stay in your current situation for as long as you like. It makes no difference to me I really don’t need the money, but I like to help people that truly want to change their life.

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Pick Up Women Online Course – The Key To Women and More…

Tuesday, February 12th, 2008


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The Top Internet Dating Scams You Should Look Out For…

Wednesday, January 16th, 2008

The Top Internet Dating Scams You Should Look Out For.

Ok, I have run into several dating scams over the last couple of weeks and while as a seasoned veteran of online dating I was not sucked into any of them, I am sure a lot of newbies do fall prey to these scams. So my goal here is to educate and inform you so you can avoid them.

I have already covered how to spot a fake so I am not going to cover that here but instead I am going to cover other scams that cost you money or the scammer profits from at your expense one way or another.

SCAM #1 The “Help me I need can’t pay my rent!” Scam!

Ok a very attractive woman on my friends list on myspace that I had talked to once or twice in the past about a year ago sent me this e-mail.


“I know its rude to ask but I am hurting financially after the holidays. Is there any way I could borrow from you and pay you back in a week? I only need like $40.00 bucks to top off my rent before Tuesday. I promise to give it back the following Monday. If there is anything else I can do to show my appreciation I will. Let me know if you can help me out.

(Name Censored)

Now had never had this happen before so I played along so I could see where this was going and replied…

“Have we ever met?

And how many people did you ask this?

How would I get the money to you?”


“It has been a long long time but yeah we met back when ICE was open. I bartended there. I asked about a dozen friends on my list but apparently they seem to be fair weather friends or guys that just want in my pants and nothing more. If you could do a bank transfer tomorrow I can get it back to you by the weekend and maybe take you for lunch to show my appreciation.”

Right here I knew it was a scam because of the “Bank Transfer” so I replied…

“You don’t have any close personal friends (in person friends) that you can ask?

There would be no point in doing a bank transfer because there is a $10.00 to $20 wire fee on both sides.

To be completely honest this sounds like a scam, like someone hacked into some girls account and is trying to scam her friends list. This kind of stuff is very common on the net these days. I doubt you will find anyone that you do not know personally to help you out.

If you are 100% for real and want to meet in person (So I can see you are 100% for real) and $40.00 is all that stands in your way from being kicked out of your apartment. I’ll help you out. I am not rich and it’s tight for me right now also, but I think I can spare $40.00. Maybe you can loan me some DVD’s or something till you pay me back.”

That put an end to that and I never heard back from the scammer. Now this was probably someone that had phished her account (using a fake myspace login page to get her account information) and was now working her friends list for money. If the girl had been real and in need she would have taken me up on my offer to meet me in person as she is local to me. So watch out for any women asking you for money online and even if they are real why would you give them any money if you don’t even know them.

Also most of the time if you loan a woman money even if you know her you will never get it back. Women pull this shit on men all of the time. Also don’t loan your jackets or clothes to women because often they keep it. They collect it and keep it like trophies of how well they can manipulate men. Of course this does not apply to REAL friends or your girlfriend if you have one well actually come to think of it you usually don’t get any money back from your girlfriend either…lol

SCAM #2 A More Personal Approach

This one actually happened to me on Hot or Not just recently. This is a new twist on the fake profile. We have all seen the fake profiles where you e-mail them and then they e-mail you back asking you to contact them on some other site where their nude pictures are or where they have a profile.

They have a profile where you are right now so there is no reason to talk to them on some other site. Now talking to them on yahoo or some other messenger actually is good sometimes and I actually recommend it so you can have an uninterrupted conversation or even go cam to cam and some women will ask you to chat on a messenger, but usually you will have to ask them first.

This is how the scam works…

You get an e-mail like the one below from a very attractive woman (usually with only one picture.)

“Hello! Nico babe just wanted to say hi and i liked ur profile!If u wanna know more about me im on looking foward to hearing from u”

So then you add them and this is what the chat went like…

Me: (1/15/2008 2:55:02 AM): hey

Scamming Asshole: (1/15/2008 2:55:05 AM): hey whatsup

Me: (1/15/2008 2:55:29 AM): Just got back from a party how about you?

Scamming Asshole: (1/15/2008 2:55:39 AM): ya im a little bored have off of work today

Me: (1/15/2008 2:55:56 AM): Where are you located?

Scamming Asshole: (1/15/2008 2:56:02 AM): i work for a fashion design company

Me: (1/15/2008 2:56:42 AM): That’s not what I asked?

Scamming Asshole: (1/15/2008 2:56:49 AM): about to go on cam

As soon as she said “about to go on cam” I knew it was a scam. And she is not even directly responding to my questions, just cutting and pasting a script it seems like. But I thought I’d play along.

Me: (1/15/2008 2:57:13 AM): ok

Scamming Asshole: (1/15/2008 2:57:34 AM): im entered in a fashion and talent contest and figured well chat there as your rating means alot to me

WTF? She already is telling me she wants something from me.

Me: (1/15/2008 2:58:07 AM): where?

Scamming Asshole: (1/15/2008 2:58:19 AM): k what color thongs u think black or pink? im tryin to decidelol

At this point I whipped it out and started stroking it. NOT!!! She just confirmed my suspicion that it was a scam. But I thought I’d play along.

Me: (1/15/2008 2:58:30 AM): black

Scamming Asshole: (1/15/2008 2:58:40 AM): k lol k ill put them on for you

Me: (1/15/2008 2:59:59 AM): ok

Scamming Asshole: (1/15/2008 3:00:24 AM): just tell me when you see the secret code box i’ll set you up, plz dont give the code out to anyone plz babe

Ok I know it’s a cam for sure at this point.

Me: (1/15/2008 3:01:26 AM): And your point is?

Scamming Asshole: (1/15/2008 3:01:54 AM): k thnx,put in adminpass09 in secret code box then on the next page it should say ur charge is $0.00, let me know when ur on the second page

Me: (1/15/2008 3:02:36 AM): Being that I just got back from INTERNEXT and I send traffic to cam sites that pay me $45 – $100 a sign up. I’ll pass.

Me: (1/15/2008 3:02:58 AM): I don’t have time for this scam.

Scamming Asshole: (1/15/2008 3:03:25 AM): u just need cc to verify age u can use expired one if u want dosnt matter, just make sure u uncheck the black box on the bottom so it automatically cancels out after 2 days.let me know when ur in so i can show u where im at on my cam

Ok so you can see they are not even reading what I am saying I told them I also send traffic to cam sites (but I do it ethically I don’t deceive people and waste their time.)

Me: (1/15/2008 3:03:42 AM): What are you in india cuting and pasting

Scamming Asshole: (1/15/2008 3:03:53 AM): let me know when u login babe k?

Me: (1/15/2008 3:04:00 AM): Get Lost

Scamming Asshole: (1/15/2008 3:04:09 AM): brb 1sec gotta restart cam u commin?

I logged out and deleted her/him/it from my list and reported the profile to Hot or Not. You should always report these kinds of profiles so the site can clean up the system.

The funny thing is I got another e-mail from another girl with a different picture and different yahoo messenger account, but the same name and a telling me she is into fashion design also about 5 minutes later. Obviously they are using the same scripts. And they target people that they can see are online.

Don’t fall for this crap. If you want to sign up for a cam girl chat I’ll give you some links to the best web cam sites on the web and you aren’t charged unless you want a private chat.

But don’t fall for these scams or ever buy anything that you find out about from a fake profile because you will only encourage them to keep doing it.

Even if you want what they offer don’t go through their link. This also applies to spam never buy anything from unsolicited spam that you did not subscribe to.

SCAM #3 The Revenge Scam.

Several years ago when I first got started in this online dating thing I was much more gullible and got scammed by someone’s revenge scam.

I met some girl (fake) on some site I can’t remember it now we talked and she said she wanted to hook up. Told me her address and how to get there sent me a bunch of pictures.

But she said her phone didn’t work so I was a bit skeptical, but I have hooked up with girls I met online without ever talking on the phone so I thought I’d give it a shot I was bored anyway.

So I drive to her apartment (at like 3:30 am) which was in an area I did not know so it took me a while to find it. I part walk up to the door so there is a big sign in the window that says “If you are from the internet, you got scammed, someone is harassing me and sending people to my house, I have notified the police, DO NOT KNOCK.”

I realized I just got scammed and by the looks of it so have a lot of other men or that sign would not have been there. I then went home and the scammer was still on the messenger and asked if I was coming or not. I decided not to let this scamming loser with no life have the satisfaction. I told them the pics weren’t mine and that I was a fake…lol and that I was 14 know I would not be coming. I bet they felt just as stupid as I did.

Here are a few rules to help you avoid scams:

  1. If she does not have a phone to talk on she might be fake, but not always.

  2. Always meet her at a public location for her and your safety unless you have been talking to her for a really long time and seen her on cam.

  3. Meet her in normal times of day or evening a real woman is not going to invite you over at 3:00 am after talking to you for only 30 minutes. She might meet you somewhere but she’s not going to invite you over. The one exception is if she doesn’t have a car she might as girls without car are usually bored as hell and easy to hook up with.

But if you get several signals it’s scam don’t waste your time.

I hope this helps you avoid any scams and keep you from getting ripped off.

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How to get women to respond to your emails…

Friday, January 11th, 2008

Many, many, readers have written to me asking:

“How do I get her attention to make her interested in a conversation?”

“How can I get girls to respond back to me when I email them?”

“I can’t even get women to reply to my e-mails, what do I do?”

Without question the questions that I am asked most often about online dating in some variation or another is basically “How do I get women to respond to my e-mails?”

This seems to be the biggest obstacle for most men in meeting & picking up women online. They can’t get women to respond to their opening e-mail. This is really analogous to the initial approach when meeting a woman off line in the real world.

Online via e-mail just like in the real world you only get one chance at a first impression so your opening e-mail can make or break you chance at meeting that woman you are planning to e-mail. You opening e-mail is one of the most important tools you have in meeting women online 2nd only to your profile.

After spending 4 years online meeting women, I have learned what works and what does not work when contacting women online and distilled it down to workable consistent formula that any man can learn and use to be successful with women online with a little practice and effort.

The correct method for meeting women online is not something I can tell you in one or two paragraphs so I have written a 10 page special report in adobe .pdf format that you can download for free by signing up to my free newsletter at

It contains my top 4 techniques for getting women to respond to your e-mails.

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How to spot a fake on Myspace…

Saturday, December 8th, 2007

How to spot a fake on Myspace…


Having a false or misleading appearance; fraudulent.


  1. One that is not authentic or genuine; a sham.
  2. A person that has stolen another persons picture and created a
    profile on myspace pretending to be another person.

Ok so the number one problem I have on myspace is no longer getting women to contact me. I have mastered that aspect  of online dating. The problem bow is weeding out the fakes!  Which I am pretty good at spotting now.

I even psted a blog up on my page to help prevent it.

But here are the top 5 signs that the girl you are talking to is a fake.

1. She only has pictures of herself. There are no social pictures of her with other people.

2. She has little to no text at all.

3. Her friends comments are mostly “Thanks for the add” and “You’re hot!” typs of comments. No real

4. Her friends are mostly guys, Real women have female friends.

5. She seems too good to be true. She is a 9 or ten has a perfect personality and is online all day. There are hot
women on myspace that are real but they are too busy to be online all day long.

6. She is much hotter than most of the girl you have dated in the past. If you tend to date hot women then this
will not apply to you.

7. All of a sudden out of no where her profile is deleted or she stop talking to you for no reason. This is because she can not keep the charade going and has no other choice.

If you girl shows any of those signs she maybe fake, if she show several the odds are she really is a fake.

Now before I waste any more time than 2-3 e-mails on girl fake or real I do the following.

1. Meet her in person to see if she is real (if she is local)

2. Have her go on webcam so I can see if she is real.
3. Have her send me send me a candid mirror pic holding up a sign with what I tell her to write. (this can be faked but is not that likely)

4. Have her send me send me a candid mirror pic from her cell phone. Often these pics are very revealing :o )

And to every one that has been faked I suggest that you from now on ask for the above so you will never get faked out again.

If they are fakes they will most likely pull a take away on you and tell you that “Maybe we shouldn’t talk anymore” or some crap about trust. All of which is just a manipulation tactic. Then just know that they were fakes and move on and block them.

Oh and talking on the phone means nothing other than your imagining what you want to imagine and your really talking to some ugly fat chick that has a phone.

Once one of my friends spent 3 months talking on the phone to a girl that planned on moving out here and living with him an hour before the flight she called and said “I am not coming the pics arn’t mine!” He was devastated he had even stopped seeing other girls. If he had followed the above suggestions of getting proof of identity as I always do it would not have happened to him.

I personally feel that these fakes that actually play this out that think this is funny, or are role playing as some women think it’s like a video game with emotional content.  Are guys that are total losers that actually have no life, don’t get laid and have way too much free time on their hands. Not only that they are thieves, they are stealing peoples time which is their lives.

When you talk to a fake you could be spending that time talking to your friends, family, working, learning. But you are taking a chance and time out of your life to make a connection with someone on an emotional level and some selfish inconsiderate asshole is taking advantage of that and robing you of your time which remember is your life.

I just read a story about a guy that did this to a “Friend” as a joke and made his “Friend” him waste his time driving all over the place. No one needs friends like that! I hope that guy wises up and gives that friend the boot. Because it’s about as funny as giving your friend 4 flat tires and making him late for work.

So far I must have dealt with hundreds of fakes. If they don’t play by my rules I stop talking to them. That’s the best way to handle them and Ironically if it turns out to be a real woman she will respect you for being a man and having the balls to cut her off and not letting her pull your chain.

I just had another girl contact me with fake pictures. Then the next day she came clean and she was cute (she would be a lot cuter with out all of the tattoos) but It turned me off so much I was no longer ineterested… Read from the bottom up.

I am just tired of it.
I am sorry you feel that way. Thats not truely how I am. But it is what it is.

—————– Original Message —————–
Date: Dec 7, 2007 1:08 PM

No just on principal, if someones a fake and likes to play games with people like that I have no interest.

—————– Original Message —————–
Date: Dec 7, 2007 12:30 PM

if you were really interested in me, you’d still be talking me.

—————– Original Message —————–
Date: Dec 7, 2007 11:54 AM

I have not looked at your pics yet I might like them more than hers who knows but straight up Thats fucked up! I have at least 3-4 girls do this crap to me a month! Some try to drag it out forever and pretend to be someone else Read my blog on fakes. They waste your time when you could be working or talkng to someone else. ALL PEOPLE ARE SUPERFICIAL they have done studies and children at age 4 respond better to attractive people. Some women are more attracted to men with tattoos, or some don’t like nice guys etc… I did not contact you, you put in a friend request to me.

I liked talking to you so I kept talking to you. Most of the women where I live are as hot that girl it’s normal to me to talk to women like that.

Have a nice life.
If you had been yourself I would still be talking to you

—————– Original Message —————–
From: .
Date: Dec 7, 2007 6:24 AM

Ok so let’s start this morning with. That page you saw yesturday was not me. That girl Kandi is one of the most beautiful girls, and successful as well. I am a huge fan of hers. Everything I told you yesturday was true, other than my name and the pics that you saw.
I made the profile like that initially simply to prove a point that the hotter you are the superficial guys come rolling in no matter how much they tell you they are not. My real name is Aubrey, and I am a model, gogo dancer, and bartender in Tampa.
My real pics and the real me are up. Take is you may, but this was simply a test. No offence to you.

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When to meet her in person Part 2 (Online Dating Video)

Sunday, August 5th, 2007

Learn the right time to meet her in person and why doing it too soon can kill your chances with her.

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When to meet her in person Part 1 (Online Dating)

Sunday, August 5th, 2007

Learn the right time to meet her in person and why doing it too soon can kill your chances with her.

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Top Ten Mistakes Men Make in Online Dating (Video)

Wednesday, August 1st, 2007

So you have finally decided to give this online dating thing a try (or a second try) so how do you get started. Well if you believe 90% of the Hype (crap) out there you will go sign up at some over priced dating site filled with fake profiles, average looking women looking for their dream guy or a few hot girls desensitized and bombarded by e-mail from pathetic men to the point of not even signing in to check any more.

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How To Meet Women On Online (Or How to Meet Women on Myspace)

Friday, July 27th, 2007

So you have finally decided to give this online dating thing a try (or a second try) so how do you get started. Well if you believe 90% of the Hype (crap) out there you will go sign up at some over priced dating site filled with fake profiles, average looking women looking for their dream guy or a few hot girls desensitized and bombarded by e-mail from pathetic men to the point of not even signing in to check any more.

I’m going to suggest to you a very different approach. This method has worked very well for me and now I am going to share it with you step by step. This gives you an overview of exactly what you must do to successfully meet women online.

1. Go to right places online to meet women. These are not dating sites but social networking sites like,, and There are many others but those are the biggest and the ones I suggest that you concentrate on especially

2. Build a quality profile that women will find attractive. Right now you’re thinking “Ok but how do I do that, because I am already on Myspace and I am not getting laid!” I am glad you asked that. Very simply a profile that is attractive to women conveys through it’s text and images that you have all or many of the qualities that women find attractive in men. A few of these qualities include, confidence, abilities, social proof, humor, success and sexual value.

3. Grow your friends list. This will give you some social proof and also the more people’s friends list you are on, the more women will see you and visit your page and if you have done your profile correctly women will contact you first.

4. Contact women. This one is often the hardest part for most men. Some women will not respond no matter what you say to them. Some women will only talk to men they know offline. Fortunately some women will respond if you say the right thing and have a solid profile that makes you look attractive. If they contact you first which is always the best situation then just follow step 5 below.

5. Continue the conversation. Once she responds you simply continue talking to her and the best way to do this is to talk to her about things she is interested in. You should be able see what her interests are on her page. Or you can ask her questions about her pictures, her pets if they are in any of the pics etc…

SIDE NOTE: You will run into women that have nothing on their page but pics and these women usually look like 9’s or 10s physically. These most often are either fake profiles or extremely dumb and shallow women that have the I.Q. of applesauce. I recommend just moving on. I mean really a woman that can’t even express themselves or take the time to write about themselves is generally too busy to talk to anyone, have A.D.D. and are extremely flaky shallow and only impressed by players spitting game, drugs, fame and money. While it is possible to hook with those girls WHY THE HELL WOULD YOU WANT TO! They are nothing but a headache, they are a total mess and personally have been the worst sex I have ever had! They all think they are God’s gift to men and that you are lucky to be with them. The only thing special about these kind of women is that they should be wearing a helmet! On the other side there are very hot women (8’s, 9’s & 10’s) that are also smart and beautiful. You can usually identify them not by just their pictures which will tend to be more tasteful yet still often times revealing but more importantly by the quality of the text on their page and in their blogs. Ok ok I go on rants once in a while, deal with it.

6. Meet her in person.
After you have built up enough rapport which can happen in 30 minutes to several weeks of talking (Every woman is different. But I will tell you most of the time the longer you talk online before you meet the faster you will have sex in person. Because you are actually dating virtually but without the normal cost involved.)

7. Bring her back to your place. IF you have done all of the steps above correctly this step is almost effortless and automatic. Sex at this point is 99% guaranteed. So just go with it and act with confidence in your actions and make the move.

That’s it in a nut shell an all I have time for now.

One more thing! Very soon I am going to be teaching an E-class/Webinar that will reveal everything you need to know in depth along with a questions & answers session and profile critiquing taught by me personally. This event will be limited to only 30 men as I want to make sure that it is not over crowded. Also this event is not open to any men in the state of Nevada. (Because I am still actively using these techniques and I don’t want the competition)

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