The Millionaire Sucker Club – TV Show…
I have been watching this crazy show on Bravo called “The Millionaire Matchmaker” where millionaire men pay a woman to set them up with Gold diggers that are looking for millionaire husbands.
This just goes to show all of you guys out there that think having money will get you women. Money alone does not cut it. I mean these guys are rich and they still have to pay some woman $10,000 dollars to hook them up with women.
The worst part is often some these guys have such poor social skills and game that often the girls still don’t go for them even though they are millionaires.
She often gives these guys advice and some times it’s good but sometimes it’s terrible advice like spending lot of money on women and not having sex until they are in committed relationships. I totally disagree with all of that crap!
In fact she kicks them out of the program and keeps the $10,000 if you have sex with the woman unless you are in a relationship.
She also makes them take women out to a 4 or 5 star restaurant on the very first date. Which is a HUGE mistake! Why would you ever spend money on a woman that you don’t even know yet. That makes you look desperate and like you are trying too hard to impress her. Even if you have money you don’t need to spend it on her until you know her or even better yet until you are intimate.
I personally feel that you should never spend money on a woman until she is having sex with you. You reward her for good behavior not the other way around or she will be controlling you with sex forever!
But, remember her goal is to get them to hook up and get into a relationship and move on to the next $10,000 sucker.
So basically these guys spend $10,000 to meet some hot women that only want to date millionaires and for bad dating advice that makes them financial targets and pussy whipped.
Patti the match maker might have good intentions but the problem is that she is a woman and she is telling these guys to do what women “Say they want’ not what women respond to. So the advice favors the women and puts them in control but will also turn them off on an unconscious level in the long run. I have met women that have left the life of being pampered and living like a queen because they were bored to death and felt no passion for the man.
We see it all the time the guys women stay with are always the ones they are complaining about and the women with the perfect guy is bored and she looses attraction. In fact Patti tells how she herself went for bad boys when she was young.
But now she likes nice guys now that she is older and over weight. (Wow it’s such a reward to be a nice guy you get older women that are fat, such a great deal!)
The worst part is these poor guys are millionaires, yet they lack confidence, are seeking the approval of these women, and kissing their asses so much that it makes me almost flinch just watching these guys on the show.
You can tell some of the women would walk out if it was not for the dollar signs in their eyes, looking for someone to pay their bills. I have to say I do respect the women that say “I am not into him” to some of the guys even though they are millionaires.
Patti claims she does this because she wants to help people find love and maybe her intentions are pure but setting up nice guy millionaires with gold digging parasitic woman that are looking for someone to give them a free ride is not doing these men a favor. In fact it’s a recipe for disaster at least for the man.
There are so many things wrong with this situation that it’s hard to know where to start but here goes off the top of my head…
• The woman is attracted to the financial freedom and lifestyle and not the man.
• The man is a target to be taken to the cleaners and lose a lot of money if they do get married or live together with out a pre-nuptial or co-habitation agreement.
• If the money is gone or he hits hard times the woman is gone also.
• She is really in control of the relationship because it started with him trying to buy her and without the social skills to met another woman he will give in to her demands out of fear of loss, loneliness or if she uses sex to manipulate him.
• If he becomes controlling or tries to take his power back it will be by cutting off her money, which causes resentment.
• By not having sex before they are in a committed relationship they don’t even know if they are sexually compatible as a female friend of mine was so quick to point out to me. (But I guess that really doesn’t matter since these women get their orgasms from shopping.)
If Patti was sincere about helping these men she would recommend an attorney and give them information on protecting themselves financially from the gold diggers she is setting them up with. Maybe some of these women might have their own money and want to date on a equal level or maybe some of them really want to find love and figure they can love a rich guy just as easy as one that’s not rich. That’s fine, then none of those women (that are truly in it for love) should have any problem with signing a pre-nuptial agreement before getting married or a co-habitation agreement before living together.
If these same guys came to me and paid me $10,000 I would spend 4 days with them and teach them the psychology of attraction, how to meet beautiful women both online and in person, and how to build attraction with women. Then they would be set for life and be able to meet women everywhere for the rest of their life rather than just being set up with a few gold diggers with the advice to spend money and kiss ass.
Then if they still choose to use her service or one like it they would then at least know how to keep the women attracted and create sexual desire in them which most of the guys on the show clearly do not know how to do. In essence with out knowing how to attract women and not having seduction skills they are wasting their $10,000 fee to the service.
The bottom line is that if you have money most women will give you a chance that they would not have given you if you did not have money, but only the true gold diggers will stick around based only on the money. So what this means is that you still need to have social skills and the ability to attract and seduce women.
PS: If you want to pay for women and sex do it right like HEF does get it all on a contract and protect yourself financially and then get 3 women as long as your paying why not? And if you do it in some of the less expensive countries around the world you could do it for what it cost you to live alone here in the US.