I just right-clicked on both files and opened them in a new tab and they both worked now.

you know what you may be right…

cheers!

I also wanted to add in something that might help Michael. Goes back to the old Nike commercial…JUST DO IT!

Practice makes BETTER. So Michael, work on setting up as many of the face-to-face meetings as you can. Sure, you’ll feel akward at first and may flub up a few times. But like Jae Ellis likes to say, you cannot NOT learn from it, and eventually you’ll be feeling REAL comfortable.

I had to go through this when I first did the online thing after a lengthy marriage and divorce. I was always–and still am–more comfortable just meeting women when I’m out and about, so the first couple face-to-face get meetups after meeting online were a bit akward. So what. Before long I was feeling real relaxed and comfortable.

Just last night, I met up with a gal at a bar that I had first met the night before online. After greeting her with a hug and kiss on the cheek, and speaking with her for about two minutes, she interrupted me and said, “Why are online? You seem like you can meet girls anywhere…” A little while later we were making out and she later followed me home. And THIS from a gal who had told me during on phone conversation the night before that she was tired of dating jerks who only had one thing on their minds. And we will be getting together Friday nght…

The point is Michael, follow the advice Nico gave and then get out and meet up face-to-face. Over and over again!

Anyway, wanted to chip in on two things you said:

“I just hooked up with a girl that had sex with me in 3 dates. She
said it was the fastest she ever has had sex with someone. She usually makes them wait at least a couple of months. She was moderate conservative online and in person she wanted to take it slow, but in bed she is one of the wildest girls I have ever been with…lol”

Man, you are SO right about this. I had practically the same thing happen to me. She was very reserved and conservative and didn’t want to have sex too quickly, however, she gave me head on the third date, I suppose as a promise of better things to follow and after that she became a raving animal in bed. It lasted about a year and a half and I had to recently let her go as I wasn’t prepared to make the kind of commitment she wanted, but without a doubt THIS was probably the greatest sustained sex of my life. Just last week, I met up with a party girl type of woman with tongue piercing, spikes in her nipples, belly-button piercings with skulls on them, and a very nice body. But you know what? Even though she gave great head and we did everything, it wasn’t nearly as satisfying as the “conservative” gal…

Here’s another great point you made:

“Now if you are actually talking about conservative religious girls.
That is a different story. But let me assure you they even they want
sex there is no one that does not want to get laid. Some of them
might want to wait until they are in a relationship and some might
want to wait until they are married.”

Women love sex. ALL women love sex. Ok, maybe just 98% of them, but the point is, women are women and even if they are conservative religiuos girls, they still yearn for it. Granted, they may hold out til marriage or a committed relationship, and I can respect that, but they want it nonetheless, and will sometimes go for it if they can justify it to themselves. And once they do decide to go for it, they can become just like the WILD conservative gals mentioned above. After all, there’s a lot of pent up passion waiting to come out…

Great newsletter, Nico.

But basically you either setting up a meeting with out the phone but exchange cell numbers in case you are late or lost or vise versa.

Or

You tell her you are tired of typing and ask her if she wants to talk on the phone. Then you just continue your conversation with her just as you would via e-mail or IM. Hearing your voice will also create more attraction in her if you sound confident and have good a voice.

I always get them on the phone if they are out of town and we have to drive or fly to meet each other.

I hope this answers your question.