Hi BJ,

Ok so you have the first part down, you’re lucky enough to be
naturally good looking.

So why is it that someone that looks like you does not do as well
as I do online?

It’s obviously not my looks, while some women do think I am good
looking others don’t basically they love me or hate me there is
not much middle ground with me. I rate a 7 to 7.7 on hot or not.

You have a look that would appeal to more women than I do.
So the answer is what you are doing is NOT working, you are not
contacting them the right way, or your profile is not conveying
attractive qualities.

There are two problems men that are good looking run into:

1.They try to rely just on their looks.
Unlike women that can rely on just their looks to attract most men.
This does not work well with women. Because women are attracted more
to a mans action and they way he interacts with them than they are
to his looks in most cases.

They look for traits and qualities where we look for physical
attributes. Let me give you an example of how men and women differ
at this.

US (Men)        Them (Women)
Great Body     Confidence
Nice tits           Status
Great Ass        The way he makes her feel
Pretty Face     The way he carries himself

The above is just an example and not a direct correlation.

Now some women are more physical than others and are attracted
to model type guys. But of all of the naturals I know the
best looking model type guys are NOT the ones that get the most
or hottest g1rls. It’s the ones that have personality and convey
the alpha male qualities The ones that and are good looking are
virtually unstoppable. Some of them are not all that much to look at
but they are fun, outgoing and keep the women laughing.

2. If your good looking most women think your a player.
I have been told this by women that find me good looking, that I
intimidate them becuase I am always hanging out with hot women
(or so they think based on my pictures) or they think I am a
player and don’t trust me and are afraid to give me a chance
because they will get hurt.

So as a good looking man in addition to not relying on your
looks and developing a personality you also need to overcome
their fears that you are a player or man whore.

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I answer all kinds of questions related to online dating.

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She said “Men should not be forced to be Monogamous” In shock and awe of this brilliant woman I asked “Why?” she said “it’s not natural for them” and  “you can be his friend and have the truth and a great relationship or try to control him and be lied to.”

She also understood that to men having a fling keeps his sex drive alive where monogamy generally kills it so the woman in the relationship also suffers.

I asked her if that meant that she should also not be monogamous she replied “No, when I’m in a relationship I don’t want anyone else.” And  “If most women thought like this there would be almost no divorces.” I agreed!

The stats support what she’s saying. Sure some monogamous men are happy. But most if you talked to are actually tolerant rather than happy, becuase they believe and have been brainwashed to believe they have no other option or choice.

And it’s not proven that committed men live longer. Men in relationships live longer, that does not mean they have never had sex with anyone else. I’m not at all against relationships. I have been in several both monogamous and open and both were wonderful times in my life.

For MOST men the dating world sucks, they risk the rejection, spend the money ( I don’t spend money on a woman until I know she’s into me, then I’m very generous), most of the really attractive women out there are low quality in all of the other areas so approach with caution! (ask any experienced man and he’ll tell you the same.)

Many of those married men that look so happy, are not monogamous they don’t wear signs saying “I cheat.” And neither do women.

Some men do find women they are 100% into and are 90% compatible with and it’s so good that it’s easier to fight the desire to be with another women.

But for most it’s not the case. 66% of marriages end in divorce. And I don’t think I have ever met a married man that didn’t tell me “Don’t get married!”

And no I’m not the last word and her view is certainly not the norm for a woman. The last word lies with each individual. I’m just a person looks at the reality of the situation as a whole and every man I have ever had a serious talk about this with says the same thing “I want my wife but I’d like to have sex with another woman once in a while” It’s like a pressure that builds up and needs to be released. You either release it or have an explosion.

The one’s getting some on the side are MUCH happier than the ones that don’t for the most part, unless they have guilt issues.

Anyway I don’t agree that most women will agree with this. Only maybe those that do therapy with men, or prostitutes as both see the sides of men they hide from the women in their life. Or maybe women like my friend that some how has also come to the same conclusion through what ever means of observation of the reality of the situation.

The few women I have met that share this view or were raised to and they are much happier and less stressed out and my friend above that told me her view is one such woman.

What really needs to happen is Men as whole and to just come out and say “ENOUGH! this is how we are deal with it!” and end the lies and pretense. Because you can never be true to someone else if you are not true to yourself.

Most men want a relationship but we are wired to want to have sex with other women by nature. Nature will ALWAYS prevail over social conditioning, social contracts,etc… Look around at all of the evidence. Disagree all you like but the fact and static and behavior of people speak the reality of the situation.

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“It all depends on where you are in your  life and what you want. I find that often it’s best to take some time alone or single especially if you are one of those people that have never been alone or jump from relationship to relationship as most very attractive women do because it’s so easy. A lot of women don’t leave one man until the have another lined up. I see the less in men.

People that are never single and never spend any time alone really don’t have a relationship with their self or even know themselves well. When you don’t know yourself or have a quality relationship with yourself how can you ever expect to really  have quality relationship with another person.

People also need to wake up from the LIE we are sold that we need someone else to complete us. We must find that inner peach and feel completed  and happy our own then we will attract others to us that also feel that way.

Relationships are Mirrors that show us aspects of our self and also reflect back to us what we judge harshly in others. So you really need to asses what you have learned from the relationship about yourself, your actions, reactions, and also what you have discovered that you are attracting in others and what you want and do not want in a future partner and relationship.

Without that you’re pretty much going to attract the same thing and often make the very same mistakes as you did last time.

Now if you’re just dating and there are really just seeing someone for a month you should still learn about what you want and don’t and your actions and reactions. But you don’t need a cooling off period that’s as long or even one at all.

BTW you can apply this way of thinking to your entire life, your job, family, sports, a conflict with a random person. This is the way I live everyday.

Asking how I attracted a situation, where my actions the best I could have taken and what would I prefer in the future.”

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Then when he dumps her she often comes back to tell you the story and cry on your shoulder! And just when you think she is going to wake and she you for her dream guy he calls her back now that he got a new bottle of Viagra all you get is the F—ing check at the end of dinner and a distant hug! And the torment goes on!

What you don’t know is that the very fact that she is friends with you and is willing to hang out with you generally means that at some point when she first met you she had already said to herself in her mind “I’d have sex with him.” And then YOU SCREWED IT ALL UP! And then you were then put into the friends zone!

Don’t feel bad I have done it myself many times before I discovered through trial and error, and lot of going over tons of interactions with with a fine tooth comb looking for clues and traces of where I went wrong and where I went right.

The Good News is that you don’t have to suffer in the friend zone anymore or learn through trial and error like I did. Because I have not only put all of my secrets into my “No More Friend Zone” Issue but I have also included over two hours of candid uncensored interviews with attractive women where they reveal how men screw up turn them off and literally force them to put guys into the friend zone!

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